I know this thread is 5 years old, but someone bumbed it and her experience is meaningful. she "let it" go on for 15 minutes because emotionally and psychologically, she felt dominated. she told him to stop, she cried, but he didn't. Rape starts at an emotional and psychological level. If anyone comes on and reads this thread, they have to know that they are ALWAYS allowed to say NO and stop the act at ANY point.
to the people who wrote this,
"It's actually pretty common for a woman to tell a man to stop without even realising it during intercourse, because she doesn't realise what she's saying and she's overcome with pleasure."
That's so messed up.. Is this poster some kind of a perv who signed up and made his avatar / usename look like he is a young girl so he could say this crap and get away with it?
"Now, if you would have been hitting him and screaming for him to get off you and he kept going -- that's rape. What you have described is not rape. It's hard to discern nowadays because you can say yes....yes....yes...yes... NO!"
she said no, she may have felt too intimidated to insist. the moment she no longer wants it and says "no", she should be respected, otherwse it IS rape. it's not like she said "yes" so now he is entitled to go all the way.
"He should have stopped but I wouldnt consider it rape he might have been too into it to gather the will power to stop."
he had no control over himself....... how pathetic.
Really, these posters' comments make me sick and I'm embarassed to be on enotalone with the likes of them.
I agree with Amethyst, scout and mymelancholysoul.
I hope OP is ok.