Superfly81

don't kill me for I didn't read all of the posts, but I quickly wanted to drop a note on the accutane. I was on ROaccutane for 1 year total (2 treatments of 6 months, with about 6 months in between). During the treatment, all acne vanishes. But that doesn't mean it's gone. If I could make the decision again, I would change my eating patterns first, before I would try accutane. It made me really depressed etc...

there's no proven link between diet and acne...and maybe there never will. But, face it, it has an impact on acne. We are what we eat, not? So acne can be a result of that. I've had a great improvement from only changing my diet (more vitamin B5, less dairy products, ...). Maybe you should try those things?

Try to search google for Lucinda Bassett and Midwest Center! She has a program that helps you during 15 weeks. This might work.

I agree with Noggy. I've had some girls that were not really interested in sex. They did not say they wanted to wait until after marriage, they were having a headache a lot ;-) My experience with the other girls I've been with shows that it wasn't caused by my looks or skills for instance. It turned out that some girls just didn't like sex, one turned out to be a lesbian (again, not my fault 8) ). Do you know the Newlyweds? Jessica Simpson wanted to wait until after marriage, now her husband nick is complaining about not getting enough sex. So she too doesn't really like sex. To be honest, when a girl tells me she wants to wait, I would think she's the kind that doesn't like sex. I've been with very catholic girls, who lived by the book, but when it came to the attraction they felt towards me, we had sex. PS. I believe you will live a happier life if you had sex with more men BEFORE you marry someone, so the questions 'what if' and 'should'a would'a could'a' can't enter your mindset.

I didn't read your other post, but you made some mistakes. in your message the first mistake is "then she had to go". How mong had you been talking to her? Try to end the conversation first, so you are the busy one and she needs to chase you. Why did you send her an SMS? What was in it? There is nothing you need to ask a girl you just meet, is there. So she now knows you are interested (they have a built-in radar for this), but the problem is you're probably playing the nice guy. Next time, simply call her and ask her out. "No", great, you can move on. "Yes", even better!

You are a dork,..., a dork with butterflies? ;-) If he's the confident guy you say he is, he will keep chasing until he gets a "no". Don't give him a 'no' when he asks you out Try to help him a bit next time, because the real confident guy wouldn't wait until now to walk up to you!

I think you know the answer to your question. Picture it. Girl and boy in movie, they meet, it clicks, they date, it goes great... girl decides not to decide and asks the boy to wait more than a month... doesn't add up does it? She's playing with your hard. Let her know where the line in the sand is, one more push and she's out. And when you walk away, you don't come back so it's time for her to make up her mind.

Mister teen, indeed, she cannot be pregnant since she has been 'flushed' (sorry for the words). But please use a condom the next time. You're a teen and there are already toooo much teen parents out there. And since you are a teen, you're going to have sex with multiple partners in the future, I' m sure you don't want to catch a STD, do you? Keep it up... 8)

Be careful though. Some girls freak out when you say it because that means things are getting serious. If it were me, I would not say it until she said it first. Why should you say it anyway? It won't hurt the relationship, but won't make it better anyway. Let her say it first, then you are sure enough.

Hey, from a male's point of view: what you are experiencing is normal. Women want what they can't have, right? So when you feel Eric is slipping away... that does something to you. If you don't date for a while (I am single since March) you tend to like it on your own and don't like anyone coming too close... that's what I'm feeling. But the right kind of partner will take that all away. So if you keep feeling it, you didn't meet the right partner if you ask me.

Indeed, you pick the movie. Show some control, don't run away from it. And, let's be honest, if she's in to you, it doesn't matter what movie is on the screen. May I suggest next time you ask someone on a date, you don't take her to the movies first, that doesn't talk that good. However, if 88 is your rear of birth, it still is a good idea since taking her for a cup of coffee might be weird ;-)

That's it indeed. So many of us (I used to too) have a tendency to say everything they feel. But, what's in it for her? She wants to know how she feels for you, and that is not determined by your feelings for her. Let her find out... That's good for many reasons, for instance you'll know instantly she has feelings for you...

Aiaiai... I was reading your post.. and there it was! Let me quote you: " i did everything i can to please her and went out of my way for her" Never ever do everything you can to please a woman! It will explode in your face as it did with you. Women want a man that is confident and not a push over. You were all that. I read you visited her... how many times did she make the effort to come over? Next time you are with a girl, make sure to let HER work for the relationship too. Make it a 50/50 where it comes to giving and gettig!!!!!

Goodquestion is right on... the first person on these boards I encounter that thinks the way I do. There is something else you should realise. Women don't just break-up over something. You were douing something wrong consistently. When a girl breaks up with you for a good reason (in her head), she won't come back. She had a good reason since she has a new boyfriend. It is probably already too late, but you don't need to talk to her to know you won't get her back... you won't. Take a look at the couples that broke up and for one reason or another got back together? How long did they last?....

If I were you, I wouldn't contact her at all. Seems like she is a 'bad girl'. If she shows interest, it's only because she doesn't get it from her new Romeo. So, you're still and always will be second best. Go get yourself someone for who YOU are the nr One, 'cause you deserve it!