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  1. Hi Guys, thanks a lot for the quick tips. As I mentioned, I got to see her again yesterday. We had a great time. Did some baking and got to watch a movie...I got to put my arms around her and she didn't mind. I dropped her off home and even gave her a quick kiss on the lips. But today when I picked her up for church she told me that she felt uncomfortable about the kiss, since it was her first time. So ok, I told her that I was sorry and that I would leave it up to her to decide how things should go. She agreed that this would be best. But I wonder if this will go anywhere. Anyways, thanks guys and I guess that's the best thing I could do now...just take it easy. Kind regards, 2Nice
  2. Hi, it's been over a year now that I have been on this site...hopefully someone can help me out or give me some pointers. I (28y) have recently started to go to church and met a real nice woman (24y). We started to see each other quite regularly. I really started to like her a lot and wish that this would become something more than friendship. She is from another country, in the progress of learning my native language and doesn't got much friends here. So I guess that's why she didn't mind hanging out with me. Last night after having spent a nice evening with her, I told her the way I felt about her and asked if she had any feelings for me in that way. The reason why I broad it up was that she started saying how she likes me as a friend. And I have heard that many times already and it sure lead to nowhere. So I thought I would be a bit more offensive. I know I put pressure on her. What makes it even more difficult is, that she never had a boyfriend and is thereforeeee real shy and unsure. But there are signs that I think let me know that she likes me also. She giggles a lot in a shy way when I do something funny and she doesn't mind me getting close to her. But because she hasn't had any experience this would have gone nowhere, if I just kept to my feelings. Also which makes me act quick is, that there are many other guys who are interested in her, but she hasn't figured it out yet. Anyways, I wonder if I went too far and what I should do now. I will be seeing her tomorrow again. She didn't give me any direct answer and I told her that she shouldn't. I just wanted to know if there might be a possibility that she could see us together in the near future. Hmmm...maybe I really did blow it. But she didn't mind meeting me tomorrow again. So should I just leave things the way they are and see where it goes? Kind regards, 2-Nice
  3. Thx for the positive advice, Gilgamesh and Swingfox, I would like to see her again. However, I don't know how she feels about the whole thing...besides the fact, that she said that she likes me. Also she said that she wants to take it slow and did not want that I was getting too attached to her so fast. That's why I didn't get in touch with her this entire week. Haven't heard from her until now either. It's weekend now and I am wondering if I should find out if she wants to get together again. I might wait till saturday to call her up and see what she got to say. thx again 2Nice
  4. Hi, have been out with a girl out twice...first time when I met her and then a week later. I guess we both have mixed feelings where this might end up. So far we like each other and the past two meetings were also lots of fun. However, major issue is, that she is almost ten years younger than me (she being eighteen and me being 28 ), but when I am with her it feels like I am the one who is young and inexperienced...so I don't know if that puts her off. Even though I am 28 I am very often taken as a 24 one. Actually my appearance and my age have always given me the problem, that I never really got to date in my younger years, since I looked to childish, now that I am looking a bit more mature, I have better chances but am way too inexperienced. Anyways, because of the age difference I would think that it would be wiser not to get further involved. But exactly that is the problem...I have entered this loop, where I think more and more about her the more I try to forget about her...so an entire week has passed since we last saw each other and in this time no e-mails, no phone calls or messages. I wonder if she will get in touch with me...or if I should. So what do you guys think I should do? 2Nice
  5. Hi, I had the same experience just beginning of this year when I had to hold a speech as the best of man at my brother's wedding. I can give you the following advise. Keep your speech no longer than three to five minutes long...after that people get quite uneasy. Try to talk about how you got to know your friends and what you experienced with them...basically share somethin that means a lot to you and them...maybe something funny or something more deep meaningful. Make it funny, but don't put them in a wrong light in front of the others. Hope that helps a bit. You will do just fine 2Nice
  6. Hi, thx for your reply. Yes, I am the one, who danced with the girl all night long. Well, I send her today morning a message to her handphone letting her know that it got late last night when I checked my e-mail and that I received hers but without any text. So I asked if she could e-mail me again. Also I said, that I would call her later today...was that too hasty? I mean she wanted to do something with me on saturday, so I think it's appropriate that I call her up today and ask what she wants to do tomorrow. Anyways, she hasn't written me any e-mail yet. When should I call her today? Or how should I go about it? 2Nice
  7. Hi, met this sweet girl last tuesday night and spent the entire night until the morning with her. I think we both like each other. So, we have stayed the last few days in touch with messages over handphone and e-mail. Last night she wrote me a message over the handphone, saying that she was using her last money to send me this message and was going to write me later an e-mail and was asking if we should do something saturday night. So I tried to call her a few hours later, but she was not reachable, so I wrote a short message back, saying that saturday would sound great and that if she wants, I could call her later again, she should just let me know in her e-mail, which I would check later. So in the evening I checked my e-mail account and I had received an e-mail from her, but without any message...so I didn't write back or call her...big mistake or was it ok...it was also pretty late. Should I write her today an e-mail or a short message over handphone, to let her know that I received her e-mail but that it didn't have any text and that's why I did not know if I should have called her or not? Or should I just wait until late afternoon to call her? I think she is going on some party tonight, so I think she won't be reachable later on. 2Nice
  8. Thx for the quick replies I think I will give her a call tonight and just see if she would like to do something saturday. However, what should I do, when she says that something has come up and she can't meet. I don't want to be to pushy and asking if she is free then for friday or the day after. 2Nice
  9. Hi, just two weeks ago, the world seemed to crumble down for me, since I met someone, who I really liked, but who turned me down after I was to hasty with her. But just this last wednesday I met a girl with whom I danced the entire night through and even had a simple kiss when leaving. She wants to meet again, but wants me to contact her...but I don't know when is it right to call her. Also, it looks like that she wants to dance again...I just hope she does not want me as a dance partner only.... Since she left, I wrote her a small handy message with my e-mail address...and she replied to my e-mail. I wrote back last night and now I am waiting if she will reply. Anyways, I don't want to be too hasty with her, but I also don't want to loose her. Also, when I see her the next time, should I kiss her again as welcome simply on her lips or what would be best to do? Also, how can I show her that I really like her, but in a indirect way? She said we should meet maybe saturday again...should I wait to call her until friday? Or should I even call her up tonight, if she wants to do something even friday night? As I said, I don't want to be too hasty, but also don't want things to cool down. Any advise appreciated 2Nice.
  10. Thx for the advice. Will be tough not to talk to her and wait three entire weeks. But do you think I should really call once she is back, or should I wait for her to make the move? I bet if I don't call her, it'll all be history. 2Nice
  11. Thx, for the quick advise...I will try to resist not to call her and see where it'll lead to. At least this frustration has sort of settled down my butterflies within me...bad or not, I don't know, but at least I can think straight again Thx again. 2Nice
  12. Hi, met this girl a long time ago in a video rent store and I could feel that there was something in the air between us. But we never really got to go out, since something always came up from her site. So believe it or not, almost a year went by...and I more or less have forgotten about her, when I met her again just last week. So this time it worked out and we went out on last sunday. We got along right away. However, what put me off, was that she is about to go on a three weeks vacation with lots of other friends...also guys! So I wanted to meet her this week as much as possible and see if I could get the bond between us stronger. I guess I was a bit to hasty...she wanted to meet up this week too, but now it's already friday and everyday she had an excuse...so should I still bother with her and call her up. I actually called her today morning. Wanted to know if she was still in general interested in me, but she was still in a sleeping mood, so she didn't decline, when I asked if I should bother at all to call her later. I don't know what do to...this woman gives me real butterflies in my stomach, but maybe, I should also forget it, since she is anyways gone this sunday. Should I at least ask her, if she is still interested to call me when she is back from her vacation? Or should even I call after that time? I sort of have the feeling that she won't call me...even though she said she really likes me and would love to meet me again. I am so confused! Any advise?
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