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THANK YOU HELL OF A LOT GUYS.

I LOVE THE WAY THAT IT IS PUT, cos i love the idea of him being mine. You guys are so right, I guess I should play by the ear, and see what happens. So should I say YES to him, Cos in all fairness that’s what I wanna say.

You see my IM a Asian gal and its harder on me and presser on my from the family is mad. What if in 2years time it breaks up and by that time ill be too old to find a decent guy cos all the good ones will have had sense and got married, by gals who had sense to marry before. I think im chatting crap now, but the truth is I love my guy so much and he loves me too. That’s what counts. Its juts the family pressure I don’t wanna go tro.

I guess its just me I don’t wanna be 30 and having kids,.. my mum already on my case about getting married and she has been for the past3 years I told her then give me 3 years and I wont say no. but now its 3 years later and the guy im with now he asking 3years. Don’t know how im gonna do it. Its mad cos I WANT HIM SO BAD but don’t wanna wait 3GOD DAM YEARS. till IM settled.

Your right, I do really wanna make this work, but reason I could not marry him while he at uni it would be to much pressure on him, and our families would not like it. Its hard enough tilling my parents about him, when he got no job and still at uni, he needs to be finacaily secured, to take me on. I will stand by him true every thing. But COME ON 3 YEARS that’s long, I wanna be married by at least mid of 2005. But I cant seem to see that happening he knows how I feel and respects me for my decision but he loves me to so much and says its up to me if I can wait, it not it was just not meant to be. But I need him, cant live with out him

I understand where you guys are coming from, but what if in those 3 years of engagement something goes wrong its such a n embarrassment for the family. But if we married we know we have to work on our problems, But ill be 27 by then and 3 years is a long time, I cant expect him to leave uni. I would not do that.

Hi kinda new some advise, Iv been with my guy for 9 months now and we real serious, he has asked me to marry him, we both 24 so kinda the best age to get married, Problem is he still at uni and needs 3years to sort him self out means getting engaged next year then long time engagement for 2 years. Its so long and I am worried what may happen, and I don’t think I wanna wait 3 years to get married. At the same time I love him so much and want no one else but him. Pls help.

one yu feel something for some one it dont go away, i would say try yur luck once again what you got to loose.

I totally agree with enadevoli, stay friend with her for now let things heat up a little and see if she gives you any hints of liking you, don't jump into anything, take each day as it comes , and when you think the time is right go for it.

You know what im one who knows that it's easy to become over protective, but if you cant trust him, WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP BASED ON???????? Cos. Relationships are meant to be based on trust, and you don't have that, well then your not in a relationship, I can understand that you feel as though what she got that I don't, million things come in to your mind, but you have to realize he had a life of his own before you, and why not do the same, and go out and have some fun, Are you telling me that you don't have a look at guys cos that not true, if you see a good looking guy you will look even thought you don't realize your doing it. So I would say relax, and give him his space. To realize what he has got. Let him miss you, and naturally all he will see is you, and be in more contact. Iv done it may self and it has worked in the past.

I understand that you're shy but if you really wanna get something out of this then you have to take some kind of step before someone else does. Email him, text him, they the easier form I know it's a bit of a chicken thing to do. But if I were you I would go for text. Cos you can start a minor conversation and you can tell a lot from the way a text is written, and it will naturally come out that you like him.

Ok here my latest problem, like you guys are aware that me and my guy live far from each other and only have phone communication till we see each other. At the begriming of our relationship he used to call me 5times in one hour, when I used to wake up in the morning I would have 7 text messages from him. Now its 7months into our relationship, and things have changed, don't call me as much don't text me as much, im not saying he don't love me and all he does, he's crazy about me, and wants to be with me in the future. We have talked about this and he says he will sort it out we have got into so many arguments over this. Then for the past few days he rang a lot and text alot I was so happy cos I though I finally got through to him, then it came to last night where he said we should cut down, and it was like a slap in the face. Cos it costing to much, he NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT BEFORE, why be like that in the first place for me to get used to, then change???????? I just turned around and said Me = "ok that's fine" Him = "thats is, you not gonna argue with me" Me = "nop there no need to" Him = "you sure your not upset with me are you" Me = "why should I be" Well it carried on like that. He was shocked that I reacted like that. But I am upset and I am angry and he knows all that deep down. What do I do? Carry on be like I don't care, and do just that don't call him or text, him but I don't want him to get used to It.? Please help.

Well you met her over the internet, and im not to sure form your post if that time away at the weekend was the first time you saw each other, it could be she did not feel the same once after she met you, she may have pictured someone else. I know this sounds bad but its just a guess. I would say move on, at the end of the day its not like she is in your face or anything like that so it will be easier. There so many gals around you look around and pick one of them, why find them on the net.

well you young like you say so, leave the future open and see what happenes.