Bartok

I was exaggerating to make a point... did you understand what I was trying to say? I'll be sure to say "half my life" or something like that next time, just so nitpickers like you won't blow a gasket. EDIT: BTW, following the offtopic cat conversation, my parents have a cat just like yours. I believe it's a British Blue, but these days people would call them a British Shorthair.

Not being desperate is all fine and good, and you definitely shouldn't let the search control your life... but be very careful about "just waiting". I've been "just waiting" for close to 24 years and it's really, REALLY starting to wear down on me. If you don't suck it up and go for it, chances are that you won't find it.