We've been going out since May and knew each other from back when we worked together. She took the initiative from dating to a more serious relationship by offering to pick me up from the airport after my holiday and then took me to celebrate her mothers birthday. A couple of weeks later she goes cold and it starts to feel like a one way relationship. We're both extremely busy with work but I'm the only one making an effort. So I ask her if she doesn't want to see me anymore, because it sure feels like it. I basically forced her to break it off, but the thing that gets me is that she then turns it around and said she couldn't handle a serious relationship right now and wanted to remain friends (back to where we were so to speak), even though she took the initiative when it came to making it serious. I still have feelings for her and have let her know it, but she said she just wants to be my friend. Having gone beyond friendship makes going back to it really awful for me. I want to get back together again, is there any hope? Or do I cut her off completely?
