Kurt75

Kurt, you can read about my breakup story here if you have the time: 15 months IS a long time but my ex is adamant that he truly is the man for me and I am making the biggest mistake of my life by leaving him. The saddest part is that I still love him despite everything he's done when I shouldn't. Why is it so hard to hate him?! I read it. I only work 2 days a week so i always have time! I know that he thinks he is the man for you but we all know he isnt. The man for you is one that will not do what i would call "Severe Damage". I of course now know why its been 15months as if he is still contacting you reguarly that must be a pain. I know if my ex contacted me I would struggle. I think deep down you dont want to HATE him so thats why its difficult. Your going to make it though. Sticking to NC and keep coming to ENA will help. All the best Dqueen Kurt.

No its not easy at all! lol However if you are truly wanting to get over your ex then NC, IS the best way to do it. Almost everyone agrees on it. What was your break up like dqueen? 15months seems a long time.