I have been married to my second wife for a little over 8 years now. I still love her deeply, but our life together has become hum-drum and overly predictable. At the same time I have been in mutual contact with my ex-wife, who I haven't talked to in almost ten years. She was my first and we married young. Divorced almost a year to the day, due to her infedelity, and I was hurt deeply. But here's the kicker, I find I still have strong feelings for my ex. Am I crazy? She has told me she still loves me and would give up everything this minute to get back together, and I believe her. The bad thing is I'm actually humoring the thoughts. I cursed the woman for years after our divorce but now am finding feelings that I haven't had in a very long time. There is no problems with my current wife and I other than I think we have fallen out of love. We also have two sons (current wife). My mind is in total chaos now. Can I keep my ex as a friend? I feel sometimes like she and I want to get back together, but am I living a dream? Let me know what you think, I'm at my wits end.
