tattoobunnie

You stay over her place, while he stays over at yours. Done! And she brings up the 14 yr old bit because after all this time, they have chosen NOT TO BE TOGETHER. She wants you, and chooses you. Some people know how to keep their pants on.

Um, nooooo. The only thing you owe her is the truth. That you will be not be marrying her. This is it. She won't change.

Narcissist are too shallow to care if you want them or not. You should have stopped at "for many years (we never met in real..." You don't need a pen pal.

I almost never talk about work with friends. But, I always ask questions! You could just tell him about your day at work instead of waiting to be asked.

If they think you are crazy, let the know you are going to record them doing it, and firmly say, "stop commenting on my body." Doesn't matter which gender; it's still unwelcomed harassment.

Your mom and sister don't have little children; they can get a second job. You are not an atm. I would take a break from them.

It's sexual harassment. Not normal, and not acceptable.

You aren't right for eachother. I see nothing wrong with him going clubbing with friends. Other than lying about going. But he lies, so you don't get upset. So either way, you aren't right for each other. I went clubbing each weekend well into my early 30's and loved every minute of it, and had a ton of fun. You have an entire lifetime to watch HGTV as an adult until you die.

Yes. People can spot self-loathing and hatred a mile away. Along, with thinking all women are just meeting you for a "free lunch" You are only 20; not sure why you feel you will be alone the rest of your life. I would spend this time focusing on what makes you happy and finding a bigger problem to solve outside of your own orbit, instead of driven by getting a girlfriend. When you do, your world will open up along with attracting different and new types of people in your life for the better. It takes 30 days to create a habit, and 90 days to create a life change. Stay positive and open minded, because negative never ever works.

That's not the point. You do realize just because a relationship doesn't work doesn't mean you weren't enough. It doesn't matter if you are the hottest or weirdest or whatever. Not everyone is right for each other. It doesn't matter if he wants to be your casual friend. He's wasting your time. You don't this kind of "friend".

He found someone else to hang out with. Please give this dude the heave ho from your life

Some men do. This guy, yes. "it’s hard in your late 20s, can’t sleep around like your early 20s." means I want to sleep around, but most women are pairing up at this age. If you really want to find someone, stop hanging out with a clown like this. A person you are casually dating is taking the time to get to know someone, and moving at a leisurely pace to do so, while maybe dating others. A person you are casually dating will never say, "I don't have romantic feeling for you," at any point. He already told you up front, that you will never be the one.

It only matters if prefer to be a placeholder I would stop hanging out with him; you are tunnel-visioning, meaning you won't be open to finding the right one for you, cuz you are hanging out with this clown.

If a dude makes you anxious, listen to your body; it's not love. It doesn't matter if he is dating someone or not. He's already told you, "doesn’t feel romantic." Which is weird, and unnecessarily He's hanging out with you because he's bored, and waiting for his next conquest. Dating or friendship should be this complicated.

It's only been a day. I'm old. So, I'm used to actually taking the time to get to know someone instead of the fast and furious constant contact in the beginning.