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HereIGoAgain

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  1. No I do not want to call the ex ever. In the 2 years I have not had a good time and NC has brought me to truths about the relationship that are not nice. Turned out my ex was a liar and a cheat although I was kind of aware she was not perfect but did not know she was on dating websites and possibly seeing other men long before we split up, may be for a large part of the relationship. Not a frequent occurrence but at least for 2 years of the relationship. All I'm curious about is what Superdave meant by that line. I was kind of hoping that as I was treated poorly that perhaps fate would be kind to me and I would met someone better. Turned out that I've met no one in the 2 years where I am still on my own where it looks as though I'll be on my own forever. Yet my ex who treated me horribly gets the prize of someone better to mis-treat. So I was wondering, what is the surprise that Superdave is talking about?
  2. Day 730 I guess it's certain now that the mutual NC is forever after 2 years of not being in contact. The only thing I am left wondering about is from the OP where the last line says: What did Superdave mean by "surprised at the end result"?
  3. Read this and it struck accord with me. Posted on this thread a long time ago where it's been nearly 18 months since our break up and there's been very little contact, nothing substantial. I'm too left with residual feelings that I let her get away with not telling her the reasons our relationship failed, that ultimately after the things she had did during it that I never trusted her. Subsequently found out she had signed up to dating websites long before we split up and that during that time she was pressuring me into marrying her. Now I've had time to look back and reflect, there are many things I'd like to say to her that the relationship failed not because of me but because of her actions. However, after such a long period making contact for that reason would probably come accross wrong anyway and do more harm. As a result, will stay NC with her forever where I'm fairly sure this will be mutual
  4. Day 70 something Kind of started off okay immediately after the split but now having more and more thoughts about the breakup. Didn't help getting a life threatening condition and ending up in hospital a couple of weeks after we split where thought a lot about the breakup. Got to get my focus on getting my life back.
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