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lumu

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  1. Yeah well actions speak louder then words for both guys and girls
  2. Yeah i'm a one man kind of woman myself.. Love sex all the time with that man but I don't really relish changing them.
  3. Question about sex and I think its about 80% of a good relationship but the other 20 better be mutual love and understanding for the other person. Question. Is a girl liking sex with you a bad thing in a relationship long term? Does a girl who enjoys sex and especially sex with you make you not want a long term committment with her?
  4. Love feeling a guy getting hard over me kissing him. Such a turn on to know how much he wants me. Even better if he presses it against me and says he wants me so bad while kissing my ear ... purrrrrr
  5. As a woman. If i'm in a relationship. I don't notice men outside of my man as sexual. I am too interested in my man to care. I don't think we understand why men aren't the same way. I mean I can look and say oh there is an attractive guy or girl like I say oh there is a pretty vase. I'm not thinking of them riding me like men seem to think of riding the girl they are leering at.
  6. Come to me my laddie Come to me from far away For I would wait till eve’n tyde Or longer if you bade. I long for you my laddie To take me to your bed To walk this road of life with me Ere together we are wed You take my heart and breath away E’rey time you leave It just takes one flash o’ that sly sly smile To find that in true love I’ll believe Brush my lips with yor’n my man And come to my bed with your sword or no You cover me in the cold cold nights And I’ll raise your bearn to grown. When the snow covers our rooftop And your travelin’ days have ceased I’ll still burn for yor’n touch and cry out in my lust And to have ya take me once more I’ll reach.
  7. He wrote back to me today from myspace. He says things are not going well with the family even though his sister will recover. He says he's scared he's going to lose his mom... I'm so glad he wrote to me to let me know what was happening. I'm sure its hard on him because he loves his mom so much. Its never easy to lose your parent. I felt him (for those of you who don't believe in a mental connection to another feel free to gloss over this) think of me when he wrote the message and it was a feeling of love and security about me. I feel much better and trust that I was right to believe in him. I wrote a response to the message but I'm going to try and give him space so he can deal with what he has to deal with and Im not adding to the burden. There is enough time that if its right we will come together after his problems are all settled I think.
  8. I had a four year relationship with a person who was 17 years younger. I really don't think the age was the problem. It was his anger issues and his insecurity.
  9. I met a guy online who responded to my ad. We talked for a couple of weeks. Poetry, so much in common, a real connection. We had a first date which was better then I could have hoped for. Totally into the guy and yes we did have sex after the movie.. (no its a no no but we are both 38 with kids and divorced and it seemed so right with him). He wrote back and said he loved the date too especially just talking to me. We IM'd back and forth then nothing for a couple of days then he sent a message saying he was sorry but he had a family emergency come up and he had to fly back home right away. Its something he had mentioned on the date about his family so I don't doubt that it happened. He said he needed me to know that he hadn't forgotten me. He has been using the term destiny and soul mates and I have to agree with him. I feel so comfortable with him like i've known him all my life. So easy and he is such an incredible turn on for me. He is funny and nice and a good man to his kids. We both discussed being exclusive and long term. We both said how much the relationship made us feel good and at the end of the date he said how happy I made him feel. I have been writing to him every other day or so and trying to give something of a break to him. I'm sure he's going through hell emotionally with his personal family issues. I know I would be. I am willing to wait for him. He wouldn't be a guy i would feel this way about if he didnt' drop everything to care for his family. Since he hasn't written back for almost a week do I stop writing to him? I really want to talk to him so I've been either writing random stuff in IM or composing a letter in email or sending some pictures of me or links to something funny. I've offered to be someone he can call if he needs to about this situation. I told him not to worry and I'm not mad or upset that he's gone to be with his family and we have plenty of time. Which we do. But do I keep writing supportive things to him and speaking my mind with no response back? Am I annoying him? i don't want to be an additional burden but I do have strong feelngs of connection to him already. I miss him and his company.
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