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Its is very much a possibility, but to base it on that, I wouldnt. Me being a girl, do get wet sometimes for no reason. Its just life, dont accuse until you knmow more. Every thought of her just getting herself off in it? YOu have no idea what went on, thats where the trust part comes in.

Hi- Well You can read the whole story, but basically I dated this guy Nic for 11 months. We broke up, by his choice, cause he needed space, about 7 months ago. They say you know you love someone when all the emotion, and their love is taken away and you still care. Well that is very much the case of me. He never calls, and I give him space, and life has gotten better. I met a new guy, and hes everything a girl could ask for. Hes sweet and treates me like a princess, all the while being totally hott, and he just supports me in everything. Well I have known this guy for almost two months, and I guess you could say were dating, but I still hurt from my ex, and i cant be happy. I mean I have everything to be happy, a good guy, a good life, etc, but I just carry around this hurt. Now hes going for a good friend of mine, and i just hurt so much, and my bf is so sweet to put up with me, but what more is there to do. ive given it time, Ive prayed, and given it to God, but I feel like I have been abandonded by him. Nic seemed to just move on with life, while I am stuck all the while ruining this relationship with this perfect guy who makes me so happy, i just cant find overlall happiness stuck-on-him

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Wow, I know how you feel. My ex broke my heart ,and I too recovered. Man it hurts like nothing else can. But you gott hold strong. I truley believe we meet people because they are their for a purpose, to help you throuigh somthing or to teach you something. I know how much it reopens a wound when you finnally come back into contact with that person. Because you love them, you hope for the best that could happen, but I say, what happened happened. Why would you wanna go back to her when you have finnally discovered who you are? When you truly are growing in life? As much as it hurts, you have to finally say goodbye. Keep going on in life, and maybe one day if life and God allow it, you will be strong enough to talk to her without, being drawn to her like that. until then I would just leave it as a note, and go back to living life. The problem in todays world is that people get so lost and caught up in their lover, and loose themselves. They find their identity in tthat person, and whe it ends, ythey dont know who they are. It seems to me that you have rediscovered who you are, and are moving on in life, dont let this bring back hurt and pain and the past. Remember, never waste your tears on someone who wont waste them on you.

Heres what i have learned from a devastating break up... First my story shortened, Nic was my life, my role model, my hero. He was the only joy I had in my life, till he ended it, cause he need space. I was depressed for a long time, waited 6 months hopeing to get him back, wasted tears and tears on this boy. Where in life did that get me? NOwhere! Since then, I have realized, that bad things happen to the good people. Good people with good hearts get used, and thrown around, and taken forgranted. Our lovers know that since we are good people they can treat us like dirt and we will still love them. Thats how lofe is. Good people get hurt, cause they care. Now, how can we act upon this? Well, its alright to love, and care, but make sure you dont change your life or who you are for this boy. It is so easy to get lost in being "his girl" and his princess, that you loose morals, qand all sense of direction. If you are meant to be it will happen. if not, God either has someone better for you, meaning someone more like you or perfect for you, or God wants you two to not be together, so your hearts can change and you can be made to be compatible for each other. Either way, he knows what your wants and needs are, and he will satisfy them. Have some faith... What else is there to do?

Its all good!!! Personality can make any guy hott! My last bf was a little hotter than normal, but he was the guy every girl wanted because of the way he acted. Its not a big deal to me, focas more on your strong points, andthey will balance out your weak points.

Hi, well recently I have been exploring with masturbation, and I know that a clitoral orgasm is the easiest to achieve by yourself, and my problem is, my clit is extremely sensive, almost to the point that its uncomfortable to rub, play with. And Ideas of whats up, or how to get myself to orgasm, I'v tried everything!!!

Hi, well recently I have been exploring with masturbation, and I know that a clitoral orgasm is the easiest to achieve by yourself, and my problem is, my clit is extremely sensive, almost to the point that its uncomfortable to rub, play with. And Ideas of whats up, or how to get myself to orgasm, I'v tried everything!!!

Hi, I know your pain. Ive been there, cried those tears, and hurt like no other. I know how much it hurts to know that you cant chaneg them, and how much you long to be their again, even though they have hurt you.I spent 7 months crying over the same guy, he wasnt abnomally hot, or sweet, but for 11 months he was mine. I loved him with everything then he leaves me. I cried and cried, some days worse then others. Its now been 7 1/2 months. I havent talked to him, though I want to so bad, but I dont. I know it wasnt my fault that he left, it was him. Dont blame yourself ever, pain is part of healing, and it sucks. Its the worst feeling ever. I know, but you have to go on with life. Live life one day at a time. If you need to cry then cry, if you need to scream, scream. Dont hide your emotions. Its alright to be upset, just dont loose focas of life. On day maybe that person you love will call you, until then, get out with friends(super hard to do) meet new people, live life. Its not bad to love that someone, but dont let them and their lost feelings, take your life downward. I hope I helped Lea

What would you say love is?

Hi, Well reading your story reminds me of mine, my bf did the same thing and is now trying to get with my good friends.Life sux, good things happen to those who dont deserve them and shit happenes to good people. Thats life. Its been 7 months since dating him, and its hard to see them together, hurts everytime, but you have to move on., Start dating this new girl more, go out dont wait for your ex, and in time you will be fine! Melea

The best way to get a guy back is move on. Hell miss you and com back, and if by some weird thing he doesnt, your happy and moved on.

Hi, I have realized that in life tere are people who live to be loved and some to love. Now the problem with this is people that live to love get hurt by those that take. I know how much it hurts, my guy did it to me. It hurts like hell to know there was and is NOTHING you could have done. It was his choise. If you do take him back, he can very easily do it again, but if you dont, the baby's loss. So, what to do. I cant tell you whats the easiest option, cause its your life. But I can say I'll pray for you and your decision. If you do take him back take him backf or your kid, not for yourself. A cheating man does nto deserve anothe chance for you, but he does with the kid Best of luck! Lea

BF! Friends stay, crushes leave and change!!! FOR SURE!

Going through the process of closure hurts alot, i would know, but in the end it helps!