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  1. I'm glad you ended this and you're moving on. You never seemed quite sold on things. I know it can be hard and I'm sure there were a bunch of things you liked about him... but now you get to focus on yourself and finding someone better suited for you! Hopefully he hasn't been contacting you anymore!
  2. Well I'm sorry for the way it ended but I'm glad it's over for you. There's never an easy way to end things and you never seemed sold on this. I know it's tough but the way he's acting now shows it was the right decision!
  3. Hmmm. Hopefully he realizes he screwed up here and makes a move!! I agree with others. I think you, like me, have gotten more comfortable with things. Happier about some things you had doubts about.... but you still have doubts. Hopefully they can be resolved. If not you'll know when you know.
  4. Well it sounds like things are going awesome. Haha it's hilarious to me that things have gone from you questioning your feelings... to now questioning things he's doing. It seems like you two have flip flopped!!! Though with that said I'm sure he's still crazy about you. He's just gotten more comfortable which is something that took you a lot longer than him. Well it sounds like good stuff keep us updated. A little jealousy isn't a bad thing. Don't let it take over! ;D
  5. I'd just take it easy and keep seeing him. I mean you guys hooked up 2 of the 4 times you tried right? With no assistance from medication? I mean I'm in my 30s but I can imagine eventually it's like a crapshoot whether or not you'll get where you want to be. I mean that's why there's a bazillion commercials for other alternatives right? I'd give it a try. He seems seriously willing to work with you here.
  6. That's a lot of great things. I really don't see many negatives. This is the same exact thing that basically killed my last relationship. Best relationship I'd had in years. We were on the same page in so many ways. I was insecure in the relationship though. Honestly looking back I have no idea why. I think it was mostly lack of sex and feeling like she wasn't on the same page with me. I've dated many girls and I've never been like that... I guess the fact that I liked her as much as I did and I sensed things were off was driving me crazy. I'm honestly not an insecure guy... but something about what I was giving her, and getting back, was making me insecure. It seems like this is the exact same thing that's happening here. He's looking for assurance from you. You're not really giving it to him. It's probably making him question things / start looking for more assurance. That's pushing you away. I did have the thought recently. Can people ever truly be on the same page? I think I was once. But it was so long ago I probably have a false memory of it. It certainly hasn't happened for me in the last decade.
  7. Hey things sound like they're going out! I'd try not to over think it and just enjoy it!!! It sounds like you're looking for flaws. Maybe that's because it's a better situation than you've had in a while? Enjoy these first few months. They're the best. If the red flags start mounting you'll know then.
  8. No problem!! Haha I hope he gets the drift. He seems like a really good guy. Just very inexperienced at dating.
  9. Ah OK. I'm sorry I misread that. I mean I agree this guy seems to be moving way too fast but I almost saw this coming. He was being super shy. Hasn't been with many girls. Realizes he's going to lose you if he doesn't make a move. Pushes himself to hook up. Now he wants an automatic relationship. I'm sure in his mind this all makes sense. If you really like the guy I'd tell him tonight he should chill out. You aren't seeing anyone else, you like him, but you don't want to label anything yet. Let him know he's moving too fast for you... Cause I don't know if he'll figure that out on his own.
  10. I mean am I crazy or were you just wondering when to bring up that discussion 3 days ago?? Cause he brought it up first it's pushing you away? I mean I do agree he is super clingy I just think it's funny that the night after you sleep with him you said something like... I wonder when I should bring that up. Then he brings it up and it's too early. I don't think it's wrong. Just interesting.
  11. Ya. He'll probably cancel his trip too. Good job with Mark! Went from being super shy and timid to intimate quickly. I'm glad he realized he was losing your interest and stepped it up. Even if you had to tell him! lol
  12. No masturbation! That's crazy. Well maybe when he was married he was having sex daily so it wasn't an issue. I would imagine abstaining from masturbation would make your sex drive go through the roof!
  13. I've been dating and looking, for what seems like far too long. I want to take a break, to heal and move on. But I feel a sense of urgency, to keep going while I'm in the zone. Like I'm being pushed to keep dating, when I want to leave it alone. Maybe, no most likely, the push is because of you. I thought I found what I was looking for, I think you did too. So now you've left, and while I try not to admit it, I'm sad that you're gone. I need to keep dating, keep pushing on. I'm sure in time, the thought of us will nearly be gone. But I really wish you'd call, and say you were wrong. ... Damn I wish you'd call, and say you were wrong.
  14. Ah yea I did this... probably was not a good idea. In the end it didn't change anything. I guess it did give me piece of mind knowing that I put it all out there tho.
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