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  1. Annonomous
    Well i dont have a clue what day im on, it has been on and off in terms of contact from her to myself, however i am now officially over her. I have no desire for her anymore, i have tried being friends and she still holds bitter childish grudges and so i cant even be bothered with that. I wish her best in her life, it was for the best we went our separate ways, i am moving on very well, have met a few nice girls recently, been on a few dates and am happy with myself again. She i feel has probably been doing the same and i wish her the best in finding someone more suited to her. At this point i would like to say thanks for making this post, it has helped me a lot and will help many others to come and i hope all of you are soon happy and moved on, or back with your respective ex's. Honestly right now it may seem like there is only one person out there for you and you have lost them, but give it a while and your confidence will come back and you will realise that person who was once your everything is probably not the one for you. GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!
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    Well im a drunken idiot. In my drunken state i txt the ex 2 ask if she was ok now after being drugged monday night (because on tuesday she sed she felt rough)..... She called me and had a go at me for not caring nd saying i only want to talk 2 her as and wen i choose. I dont get women at all, first of all she wants space, now she is upset because i dont tlk 2 her.... Seems like she wants me around until she is over me. I hate upsetting her but at the same time i dont want to be a door mat 2 her, something i feel i will become if i give into her now. I wish i had never got drunk, such an idiot. I have been tryin 2 move on, been on a couple of dates now but i still want my ex...... and this comes out wen i drink. Being at uni its hard not 2 drink wen every1 else does 2 so i guess im going to become a social outcast for a while in order to avoid getting drunk and doing something i regret.
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    Day something or other. This is beyond easy now, however i do fear i will see her out tonight. Tonight will be the first time i have been out clubbing around here since we broke up (due to uni exams) and i am dreading the thort of seeing her, especially if she is with some other guy, i dont wanna crack. I feel fine and over her at this point in time but im sure sheer jealously will drive me insaine if i saw her with someone else (stupid human emotions). Why is it that the most powerful feeling in the world (blatently jealously), is the worst 'quality' to have?
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    Day 7..? (I think). Well 2 days since i txt just to check she was ok after the whole having her drink spiked thing, however she replied saying a few things bout how she felt, nothing at all about me and her though and nothing flirty from either side. I am already starting to feel like i am moving on, been a month since the break up now and its been so good not being in limbo anymore as to what she wants because i have made the decision myself now that i am going to move on and that its for the best. Got to arrange a date sometime soon with a girl i know who asked me if i want to meet up sometime soon (a girl i was previously seeing before i had to move away and now i am back near her again). She asked me out but i said i needed a little time before i could meet up as i have lots of Uni exams at the moment and need to stay focused on them. All in all my life is looking up and im beggining to wonder why i ever was with my ex and how we lasted a year and a half...... we just werent compatible. Would like to be friends still in the long run but for the moment in time until i am 100% sure i am over her, the NC definitely needs 2 remain.
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    Right well ive had a very odd day. I was doing fine until i got some news thro a friend which forced me 2 break NC. My ex (who says she aint sure what she wants) was drugged last night at a club and i felt i had 2 break NC and just check she was ok as i think it would have been very horrible of me if i hadnt. I only checked she was ok after last night, nothing more. I feel this is a gd enough reason to break NC and as i purely check she was ok and didnt say anything else i dont feel i should have 2 restart from day 1 (altho ultimately the idea of this is 2 move on so wot does it matter anyway?). Since i found out though i have been unbelievably angry at what happened 2 her and what may have happened 2 her if her friends werent there 2 help her, i really want 2 find whoever did it and smack them and i am one of the least violent people u will ever meet........ Anyway does anyone feel it was unreasonable for me 2 break NC in this exceptional circumstance?
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    Day 3 Managing well, however i started the NC thing myself 3 weeks ago before i read this post and my ex (who says she doesn't know what she wants), got very upset and moody when she contacted me saying i had "blocked her out of my life" and that she would never do that to me. We met up, got on well and still she wasn't sure what she wanted, argued over it and now im back on the NC thing, this time with the support of this wall as clearly if i go back to meeting her the same will happen all over again........ Kept myself very busy, bit of a problem at the moment due to exams (university) coming up in a few days time..... dont want to let the keeping myself busy get in the way of doing revision (which it is atm)
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    K its time i took on this challenge. Loving the rules, hope it all works out how i want with me getting over her....
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    Very true mate, cheers.
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    I was with a girl about 8 or 9 months ago and afta being together a short period i broke up with her, changed my mind and wanted 2 get back with her and by then she wanted nothing to do with me because i "i look back on past problems to much" (so she sed). Well i guess she is right to the extent that i look back at least because recently we have started talking again and getting on well, and i have realised i still like her. After refusing to give me her number mobile number again 3 or 4 months ago when i asked for it, she decided (without me mentioning it at all for 3 or 4 months) to give me her number and told me 2 give her a call sometime totally out of the blue. Also she said that "it was almost back like old times". Now am i just looking back again and tryin to see something that isn't there? Does she like me as a friend? or more? Or am i just being messed around, which i guess i deserve for messing her around. Do i keep trying or should i leave it for dead? Any advice is welcomed tnx.
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    Thanks for the replies. We have kissed yes and the last few days i have taken the advice and not made contact with her and she has made it with me, so all looks to be good. I just dont want to muck it up coz im good at doing that.
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    Recently i have gone on and off many different girls after first dates, finally i have found someone that i still like after that first date, have gone on two dates since, but i have realised i have not a clue where to go from here. This is girl, after the first date would txt and phone me a lot just to chat, but since then this has seemingly stopped. This girl still will reply if and when i txt or phone her(admittedly not very often), has agreed to going out again and said she isn't bothered where we go, if i arrange something she will make herself free to go with me. Now the majority of this sounds good, like she is interested but the sudden lack of communication inbetween dates has me a bit confused, does this mean anything? Is she testing me? Is she just being nice agreeing to go out with me but not really interested? Does she see me as a friend? After having a bad break up with my previous gf i am just a bit worried about making the wrong move and ruining something before ive given it chance, especially seeing as with every other girl i have been very indecisive. Any ideas on how not to muck things up before ive/shes given them a chance? Thanks
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    Thanks for your advise. Im just a little worried about asking her as we dont know each other greatly well yet and i was thinking she may feel threatened by me asking at the moment. Any ideas?
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    I met this girl a few weeks ago and after contact during this spell has admitted to liking me but says she would like to know me better. What should i do know? Do i ask her to meet up sometime? and if yes should it be just us or friends with us? any help would be much appreciated
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    I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and after contact in these 2 weeks she has admitted to liking me, but saying shed like to know me better. I like this girl but im worried of moving to fast and scaring her off, so what should i do know? Do i ask her to meet up with me sometime? And if yes should it be just me and her or should others be with us to relieve pressure? Any help would be much appreciated.
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    As ive posted before i met a girl not so long ago and we hit it off really well. I had contact with her last 5 days ago. I sed id contact her again soon. How long should i leave it before i contact her again? I dont wanna look desperate and contact her too soon or too frequently, but then again i dont want her to think im not interested. Any help would be appreciated
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