murray

hey sorry to hear your situation. I am a married man and got involved with another person. I feel in love with this other person and i couldn't leave my wife but after a while i had changed my mind but it was to late. So the answer for you is let it go. I know its hard but there are many others out there. Think of what you had and the times you shared it was special and those times will life in your heart always. I am nearly into a year since my encounter and the pain dosent go away but learn to embrass those times. You are young and not all men are arseholes. Find someone who is like the married man there is no rush. And marriage isnt what it seems. Live life and experience what it has to offer before getting tied down. You dont want any regrets when your older. What you had will come again I wish you well and I truley understand your situation believe me. Best of luck hun.

Hi I have a problem its been almost a year now. I meet a lady to get revenge on my wife after finding out i was being slept around on. I was lost and meet someone. We feel in love and it wasent meant to get to that stage but however we did. She left her husband for me and I told her from the start I would not leave my family. We had just built a new house and I was hoping that we could make our marriage last. However after the four month affair I said I couldn't go on. I have twins and she had 3 children of her own. Well to make a long story short I wanted her back but she wouldn't take me back. Now she is on my mind everyday and she knows I want her back but she has moved on. How do I stop these feelings for her. I love my wife but can only think of this other person and the moments we shared. I have been married for 14 years and I guess it was new and exciting but still my mind won't realease those feelings. Does anyone have a solution. Kind Regards Messedup