I think whatever you wanna get out of your experience of your break-up, then it's there to be got. Your posts are mighty positive so you're clearly doing something right.
Life is all about learning i feel. From day 1, we learn. If we don't learn from our experiences then that's foolish. I think healing from a break-up, learning, growing will only bring positive results in the future!
Your attitude is spot-on ScorpiGal