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arcadefire

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arcadefire last won the day on August 22 2009

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  1. I hate to sound harsh, but you've made your bed. Your husband doesn't deserve a wife like you, he deserves someone just as faithful as he is. The other guy's wife deserves to know the truth as well. Lying by omission is as bad as denying. Don't fool innocent parties anymore, and especially if you or the other woman has children, because the only thing cheating leads to are broken hearts and broken families.
  2. I have a gut feeling she cheated on you. Under no circumstances do gfs or bfs "just have a coffee" with their ex without anything else in mind. ESPECIALLY alone.
  3. spion, sent you a pm. As for sending a text, don't do it. It could get interpreted in many many ways. Not worth the trouble of wondering what she'll think of it after you send it.
  4. I wish I never looked at his facebook. Had to block him a couple days ago because I found out he had a new girlfriend. Who was eerily similar to me except not as attractive and dumber. Boy he sure moved on fast - a tier lower. Those pictures he took... he probably wanted me to see him move on! No more snooping. Not worth the pain. Ignorance is bliss.
  5. Thanks, thejigsup. I am moving on, mostly because of websites and forums such as these! And a few great girlfriends. It's just sad to know that my ex never had that feeling of love for me like I did for him. I have maintained NC strictly after breaking up mostly to spare myself of rejection. I doubt he will ever grow feelings for me in the future since I completely cut him out of my life, and I guess no good would come to even have an inkling of hope for that one. I really don't have any bets on him asking for me back. Oh well. C'est la vie.
  6. You bring up some very good points, but what about from the perspective of the dumper? The one who realized that the relationship has turned more one sided and the other party started taking them for granted? I am in that situation right now, and I still love my ex although I know that he does not love me. I sometimes wish to have him back but in some ways I feel like he should be the one to ask me back. I have a thread (see profile) if you are feeling charitable in my situation. By the way, very deserving of a sticky.
  7. I haven't really been counting, I guess since... a month? It's been really hard for me to not look at his facebook. I learned the lesson the hard way 5 weeks ago. Saw pictures of him with other girls. Made me realize he's moved on and stopped caring about me. Gosh. Why am I left behind?
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