sti_2004

if the 2 partys could hook up in persn they would.

whats up man. i know EXACTLY how u feel..im 24 now and even at work whn ur trying not to attract attention someone has start in on you then evrytime u see them they cause hell just for giggles... im not from the USA but i have noticed that people here grow up slower than where im from. its way more complicated than that last sentance, i mean i wish i could stay at home and not deal with people cause in one way or another i will find myself * * * *ed over.. there's no paranoid thinking involved. there are are incredibly crazy amount of people in this world full of evil.. i myself am really passive. i seem to take * * * * from all kinds of people from all walks of life, young or old, any race, gender.. ive only met a few people from thousands that are worthy to trust...even my wife screwed me over.. (that explains why i drink and smoke weed.) what i hate is the fact that i have to fight these people and stick up for myself which i dont want to do. i dont like being aggresive and dont have to be. but this fuct up world we live in is making me.. i pray alot.. hoping that this a test from god and i i get through it i will live happily ever after... then after a few months of hell (on top of all of lifes real stesses, divorce, death, loss of jobs or no money) you start to think -no god that loves me would ever put a person through this.. sorry bout this long * * * reply dude... but i was the "new guy" at work a few months ago, i caught aloot of * * * * from everyone including bosses. Man most these dudes are nuts... alot of mental problems.. dont let these fools break u. seriously. chill people like urself are extremly hard to find. the world would die if it were all full of mofo'f. * * * * i better end this. BACK URSELF! coz no-one else will, u dont have to go crazy. oh yea dont dwell on stuff so much. dont have to be so giving to be a great person either besides you'd just watching ur own back right.

sup lightlight IMO i dont think lack of experience drives a dude away.....and the thing i found after having sex after being a virgin is that ur supposed to just go with the flow...dont reherse whats gonna happen, you'll know what to do when the situation arises, the person with experiece would take the lead anyway.... and with the other stuff u should know what hurts and wat dosent..make sure ur not inflicting more pain than pleasure...if he was drunk he aint gonna come easy.

Hey whats up, your bf doesn't have much confidence which is cool coz i dont have much either. u guys have only been going out a few weeks but i bet he'll warm up to u after a couple months. you gotta do the best u can to make him feel comfortable and not make him feel insecure but putting him down or making comparisons with other people, being shallow will kill it too. he'll come round soon, just let him know ur his girl and he's alot cooler than ur ex's and maybe ur chick friends. later..

sup Kyoshiro man first of all whats crazy glue?? second of all how can u expect someone to want to be with a guy with low self confidence, so horribly disgustingly ugly, negative as all hell, beats himself up and so on. put urself out there in the world so people can see and hear u, go buy a fresh new closet full of clothes that u dont normally think u can wear (maybe get ideas from all those guys u r always downing urself against) start working out as a hobbie its fun (ask women to spot u), change ur fro. smilings prob the best thing u could possibly do. ur gonna have to start building ur confidence from scratch, then hit ur looks and ur ride ....keep urself moving act like ur austin powers i believe in soulmates still even though i got dumped by her.... (so dont expect every women that looks and talks to u to be ur soulmate either). i was also thinking that alot of people say that they r ugly and cant score but r these guys being shallow and only wanting hot chicks?? or do u not mind if shes overweight and not so pretty??? because u cant tell me that theres no chicks out there with the same mentallity as u. people will notice a change and will want to catch up with ur cool self. some of us have to work alot harder than others and the rewards are greater believe it or not. god helps those who help themselves and you'll only get what u put in. i dont have great self confidence im really just listening to my own advice and others but its hard to just wake up and jump outa bed saying yay im king of the world im beautiful and im gonna talk to everyone and hit on all these chicks blah blah blah so i know exactly what ur pondering and ive done research and think social anxiety has a huge role in it. there are alot meds u can get for the disorder which i havent tried only coz im doing alot better from advice and research along with practise in the real world. ur not on t.v and there not judging u, u r though. i know ur sick of it buddy but keep ur head up i truly know someone as cool as u will come out on top.

sup DREWCIOUS, i know ur situation 2 only mine was bout 500 times worse. i was in aussie and she was in middle america. we talked online alot then switched to the phone as rates came down. we had not even met in person. for 3 months we talked as good friends then a really scary situation happened when we realised we might be in love but most probably would never be able to make it work, so we kept pretending that we wernt in love for like a week longer (because of that fact of being madly in love with someone and never being able to meet up), then i lost contact with her for a few days and she ignored me when i called a few times because she knew our situation was too messed up to pusue. too late we were already in love so we had no choice but to make it work. she contacted me with apoligies (which i tottally understood) we ended up doing the long distance communication thing for a another solid year as we were too young to just pack up and move. but after that i went on vacation too see her , it was awesome then she came back with me for a year(alot of overstaying took place) then we decided to get married and move to the U.S. such a big descsion to make for such a young couple (20). we made sure that we would never be apart again. more hard times than good but in ur situation u should be greatful that u are only states apart and not worlds apart. i think u guys can make it work pretty easy, maybe one of u guys could get a transfer (then find a separate job once on ur feet). just do the long distance thing until ur positivly sure u guys really hit it off through thick and thin because it is a rough ride. we went 1 1/12 without seeing each other and even though we are not together anymore (cover ur back on that one) it was the most hardcore experience of love id experienced and i bet most peopel will never experience something like that. no regrets i didnt proof read all that so sorry bout mistakes and the long reply.

hmmm im a guy and i get pretty pissed off when my girlfriend stares at 9/10 guys that walk by. It boils me up inside and you could say im insecure but i think its just soooo disrepectful to do that infront of your b/f or g/f. It like saying screw you theres hot guys around. Ive told her about it but she keeps doing it, denying it and making up excuses. The thing that sux when a chick stares at other guys infront of the boyfriend (that pisses me off the most) is the guys start staring back like "yeeah that bitch wants me not that dork shes with" smirking at me like a pimp. Hell im just gonna start staring at hot chicks from now on, more hot chicks than guys so she'll be outer luck this time.