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  1. Versa
    Sorry if you didn't intend for male input into this problem.... But I think he likes you. I agree with the previous comment, go out for dinner and take it slowly! Just get together every now and then and see what signals you get Good luck!
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    Don't be stressed about this, you can't just turn off your feelings about someone you had such a deep connection with and it is hard seeing them with someone else. But you said yourself you were feeling happy with life so this is no reason to change It's just a fact of breaking up, you and the other person will eventually find someone else.
  3. Versa
    Relax there man, I know you won't but try!! You have got past the biggest hurdle, you know she likes you too. Its not your only chance to show her how you feel about her as you have got a whole load of dates with her in the future. Just be yourself, talk about what you would normally talk about and enjoy yourself. You like her, she likes you.... She'll be just as nervous as you are so you are both in the same boat
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    I think from what you have said in both your postings this guy is very interested you. He most likely is romatically attached to you so if you are not feeling that way with him, tell him or your friendship could go down in flames. I'm not saying it is not possible for him to like you only as a friend but make sure your not leading him on! You have a great connection with this guy so continue being honest with him Even if you tell him your not sure how you feel about him, wether it be friends or more.
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    Hang in there chap, be a good friend but don't get your hopes up that you'll get together with her. If is possible to have a girl who is a friend, hard for us guys to come to terms with sometimes but it is possible I assure you! You have opened up to her, thats ok its not a bad thing, its a good thing. Girls like the intimate talking, so if you really care for her be her friend. One day she'll help you find your love, who ever it is.
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    Go for the birthday, don't risk messing that up But after the birthday why not ease girls into the mix, invite the gang around to your house for an evening of what ever you do. While the funs rolling nip out and get a drink or something and see how the parents are taking it.... Or if thats a big step and could put the breaks on, try more subtle ways to introduce girls into the mix. Say in weekends during the day, they may see girls as ok during the day, let them get to know the girls and see that they are ok etc etc.... Test the waters and proceed with precision and care! This is a delicate operation as you well know
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    I'm a guy who has been in a relationship with similar things happening with my girlfriend. It can cause a strain on the relationship and it takes lots of talking to help both sides get through it. Your normal to worry about things!! It just shows your a caring and thoughtful person, so don't run yourself down about it but make sure you talk it through with your other half. He has to understand your feelings, but give him time as we guys think quite differently about things We can be quite slow understanding girls sometimes!
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    Need Sex

    Versa replied to Stevo's topic in Sex and Romance

    Of course you have the need your a guy! A young guy! For us it is genetic to go and sow the seed. But the previous bits of advice are right on the money. Try holding out for a couple of days and it'll feel really good the next time. At 15 you don't really have many options other than what your doing which is good, but if you do get into a position to have sex with some one, make sure you know what your doing.... ALWAYS use condoms. One wee bit of truth too, your first time won't be much good tho.... ;-) So make sure its with a girl you trust and know!!
  9. Versa
    Hi there, breaking up is a bugger and I don't know what to tell you with regards to closure but going off to college will be the best thing. Time and distance will be good for you, to get you thinking about other things. If you still want to ask questions then, ask, choose your moment either by phone or face to face or other methods. But know that the answers might not be to your liking or they may sound incomplete or a fob off, as we guys think and do some things quite differently! Also give it time, as feelings will be quite high and will be a bit easier for both sides as time goes on (at least that is what I have found). I have found that you can be excellent friends with ex's some times it takes a few months before things stop feeling weird but it can be a real shame to loose contact with someone you develop such a special bond with. Listen to what others say as the more input the better
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    Not sure if your doing other things other than making out... But if you were unsure about having sex because of pregnancy then you can try mutal masterbation, oral etc etc.... This can be very satisfying and little risk of pregnancy, (still have to be careful of where the cum goes).
  11. Versa
    I agree with Genesis & musicchicus, but guys can suffer this too (wanting more). I have been in this situation and said no strings, but there are always strings.
  12. Versa
    I think the alcohol + the antibiotics will not go well together. Thats probably why you are still feeling a bit sick.
  13. Versa
    The following is from link removed A French kiss is an open-mouthed kiss in which the tongue of one partner is manipulated by the tongue of the other. But what makes this French? The specific origin is unknown. It dates from at least the 1920s. It is, however, certainly derived from the idea that the French people are sexually liberated or even promiscuous. Similar phrases include, "pardon my French," the French way (i.e., oral sex), French postcards (pornographic pictures), French pox (syphilis; ironically in France it is sometimes called the "English disease"), and French letter (a condom). Hope it helps!
  14. Versa
    Things are pretty confusing really, and it isn't good for you as I'm sure its stressing you out. You do need to make a decision on where this is heading as what do you want in your life? Is your goal for a relationship to just have fun? Would you like to get married? Would you like to have kids? Would you like to have sex with out strings? I don't know what your goals are, but they are yours, and there is no reason why you can't reach them or live them. They will change as time goes by, so you will have to reaccess from time to time. But take a course of action that is going to lead you towards those goals and what you want to do in life. Hope this has helped some.
  15. Versa
    It is always hard after a break up as the feelings for the other person are still there. You have to think long and hard about the reasons for the break up and sometimes you may never know the reasons for the break up. All you can do is try to talk to the other person but if they do not want to talk then you cannot make them. Look at what has happened and how you are being treated, if the treatment is not good for you then it is best to move on. Its not easy to move on and it takes time, but things do get easier and I have found that only time makes it easier. You can't just stop thinking about someone or loving someone, but you can stop if affecting your life by keeping your life ticking over. Just go about your day to day things and try something new You will feel better, just takes time
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