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hmm, you probably havent heard this before.. "Money doesnt buy love".. well just kidding... but its true. If you constantly buy her items, she will think hey, maybe with time. I can get a new car. That shows her that you are willing to fork out cash like no other, and if and when you guys do get back together. And all of a sudden you dont fork out as much $$ as you did when you wanted to get her back.

hmm. good question.. My friend told me this rule and I think its good... "If you take a glass of water and splash it on her face, will she melt away" If you think that could happen, your wearing too much makeup. I personally like, just a tad.... lip gloss. I agree with above post about they like you for natural beauty. for hair.. hmm Doesnt really matter.. not long , butt high hair.. thats just freaky.. as with really really short hair... like GI Jane.. I like a nice shoulder length.. maybe a little longer..

hey, I had the same thoughts like everyone else, when anything could get worse, it did. But I started thinking... why... why should I take my own dam life because some things arent going right. That just doesnt make sense? The whole suicide thing is a game that we play out in our head. A big game of What ifs? Thats my personal opinion. You should not have to be affected by your breakup. Yes, I understand that you loved him, but I am telling you there are like so many other dam guys out there its crazy. Your life is worth 1000x the amount your boyfriends' worth. I am not here to BS you or stuff, but what right does someone who came into your life have the right to make you feel unwanted or suicidal. I am a very humorous person... thereforeeeeee I would laugh it off. Make jokes about it. I know I sound crazy, but laughter is helpful. I mean if it wasnt helpful, why do people use Icebreakers before a speech, or inside a classroom. It eases the tension. About the bills. Look at them, and make sure your not getting ripped off. Pay for your own half of whatever you used. True it may be hard to tell about the water or electric bill. But remember, do not meet or talk to your ex in a upset state or angry, because it will only make you feel worse after. Show him, that you are doing fine on your own, yes do express your feelings but dont let them get the best of you. Use goals that you want to achieve as an extra push to say, hey I want to do that, or hey I still want to do a cross-country trip on the back of a camel... you get my point. Hope that helps out some..?

Hey, Well I think that its awesome that your going back to school. Postive step like you said. I agree with the previous posts about going to the cookout. Its food, everyone loves food, and thats excellent conversation starter. Just sit down wherever, next to someone you think might be interesting and just spark up something like "hey these hotdogs are great, have you tried the ones at _________" Then person will go on to say something you know. It will be alot easier once school starts and you will be in class. Because you will for sure take classes that will be in your major or line of interest, that means that the people in the class have something in common with you. Just don't be afraid of them, they have no control over your life, and so what if someone gives you a stiff lip, laugh it off. Say to yourself, wow, that guy was funny. I was in the same shoes sort of, I am not really open around new people, but around people I know, I go all out crazy Remember making people laugh with something funny always makes good impression. Well at least I think so. Thats my 2 cents. Good Luck, youll do fine.