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  1. Hi everyone, hope you dont mind me joining this thread.. I want to go NC with someone, but not with a boyfriend..my MUM. She has made me desperately miserable for years..and its time I walked away for good.
  2. Oh right, thousands. maybe you wont bump into him...but you know thats likely right? Hey, I am all for a girl pampering themselves, I spend a criminal amount on my nails..lol But as long as its for YOU and not for HIM.? You should go to the graduation if you have shared friends, im just worried your going to go with expectations, and you will leave feeling hurt. I dont want that for you. GMBX
  3. I have just posted a message to you on your thread...and I really think you need to step back from this situation... He is going to his friends graduation with his new gf, and you are going to turn up there, after having been to the gym, dermatologist e.t.c...What do you think is going to happen? Do you think he will see you, and think " wow, she looks great, I want her back?" Also, why would you be putting yourself in such an awkward situation where you might have to witness him all over his new gf...ouch! Why you are putting yourself through this pain? GMB X
  4. did she really? Maybe there is a new career in the pipeline for me?
  5. I used to have thoughts like this, you need to change your thoughts..and think about the next love in your life, and what its going to be like e.t.c, ...it used to work for me and I was able to get to sleep more peacefully..x
  6. I would remove him from your list, and block him. Sounds harsh, but do you really want him to have front row seats to your life, yet he wont even pick up the phone to say "he loves you, and wants you in his life? " Just a thought..
  7. You will do it, TLguy but please do not contact her even after Valentines day...if you set your hopes up for 'just' passing that day, you may have a real come down afterwards, and decided to contact her anyway... Remember, if the person your in love with is able to spend a minute, a day, a week, a few weeks, without having you as their gf/bf, they DO NOT LOVE YOU. Do not punish yourself, x
  8. Yes Parlae, you have to start all over again now..did it really make you feel better, just " thank you"? x
  9. I didnt know you had a post, ill read it.x
  10. Brazil girl, I hate to be the bearer of bad news.. But in order to heal faster...you need to stop using terminology like " What we have is so special ". I know what im saying might come accross harsh and hurtful.. But if he has said " Im not in love with you, like that " or anyway he has said it and said " OK, NC is the way to go " he clearly doesnt feel the same way... He has sat there and told you to your face, he is quite happy to not speak to you any more... It may be hard to stomach, but thats the reality of your situation, dont buy into any rubbish he said. If he is content with not seeing you..then there is no " special " thing between you.. GMB X
  11. Well done, on day 3 NC...be kind to yourself and prepare yourself for the down days...but if you keep coming on here and talking it out it will help you no end.. JUST DONT PICK UP THAT PHONE! GMB X
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