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  1. I think sometimes it is just inevitable. Are you secure in yourself? When I was younger I sometimes felt like that but that was before I knew who I was mentally. It is good you are aware of this but try not to let it take control of your time with him. Have you discussed this with him?? Are they hanging on him when you are there?? Well I hope everything works out and try not to let it take control of you.
  2. Are you sick because you are depressed??? If you have posted before I apologize...but maybe is this why you are sick. I hope you get better mentally and physically.
  3. WOW..I am sure you can find yourself again. You existed before her and you will exist after her. Right now I am sure you do not want to hear that it will get better, but it will. You have to be strong for yourself and know that maybe this has happened for a reason. There maybe someone else out there for you and you may appreciate each other for who you are. It is sad that this has happened but if she has not forgiven you that is not for you to wonder why...she still maybe hurt and I am sorry to say but in a way you did it to yourself... did you want her back in the past when she had the other guy? Sometimes you want to something you can't have and then now that you have her she may be scared it will happen again. Try to live your life for yourself and try to find what you want in a women and a relationship. Do this so when you meet the next women you will not make this mistake again.
  4. It is good that you concentrate on yourself after all of these things that have happened to you. However, do not say that you will not date or see anyone. You never now what could happen......when you least expect it.
  5. winkie

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    I think that you need to relax....if you never had sex than how can she be prego. The pill can do that ya know mess with your cycle. If you just want to eliminate the prgeo part take a prego test. That make you feel better.
  6. In relationships, that usually evens things out. Maybe you should not be in a relationship until you are over all of your insecurities from your previous troubled relationship. You should be happy you have an independent women. If you work together you will be a very strong pair. BUT you need to work together and not separate, if it is new she maybe the type of person who also needs down time or alone time. My Husband and I, never have time to spend together it seems. We are such hard workers, but when we do it is very special and we get along great because we are not on each other constantly.
  7. You need to be able to do things on your own. STOP looking to someone else to feel happy. Have you ever thought about talking to her about this, maybe she can ease your mind.
  8. this message is for anonymous_presense...you are one of the most insightful 16 yr olds I have ever heard. Keep your mind open and you will be something great....although it seems like you already are.
  9. Oh please do not rely on medication to make you feel better...you need to work from within. Right now you are only masking the pain. Good Luck if anything send me a msg.
  10. I have to say then you must have been to the wrong pyschologist and no they are not the same there is a big difference between them.
  11. How is it making you feel better. Coming from my background in psychology and being a teacher, that is a sickness...and may get worse if you do not get help. If not from your parents, maybe at school. I know this sounds crappy but you are helping your brother.....maybe he can help you.
  12. Listen.....before this relationship can work with this girl you need to work on yourself. There is nothing wrong wanting to hang out with someone, but you have to have a life. If she does not want to hang out, you need to be able to be ok by yourself or ok with going out with friends. You need to improve your self-esteem or else u may ruin this relationship if it is going somewhere. Be strong and know that not everyone is like your last relationship...and if she is then you cannot do anything to change that..no matter how upset you get. You need to take a step back and a deep breath.
  13. How old are you and where do you live? If you are in school there maybe a health center in your area where they will give you a deal because you are a student. It is very cheap. I am guessing that you are not on the pill then either. It also can be stress/ Have you gained any weight recently, drugs, drinking, smoking??
  14. I cannot tell you how to feel. I am sure it is tough being young. I was young at one time to. Your life is not over because you can not hang out with your friends. It may feel like this now because you are young, but eventually your brother will be very important to you like my sisters are important to me. I hope that you can look past all the sorrow and find something good. Have you ever thought about seeing someone?? Do you cut and punch things for attention? Good Luck I wish you the strength to get thru whatever your mind is holding over you.
  15. Of course you will feel like that. It was your wife not just some stranger. But remember this you will also meet someone in the future. Life is not over you were someone before her and you will be someone after her. If it wasnt for this union you would not have a 4yr old son who probably worships the ground you wlak on. Yes you will have to be in contact but just let her know that this is hard on you and you know that you have to talk for the sake of your son but hopefully she will not use that to call you more than she has too. I know you dont want to hear this but time heals everything and if it doesn't heal it it certainly can make it better. I do hate that feeling and it will seem to last forever but I loved helping people and that made me feel better when I had my break up years ago. Just keep an open mind to knew things and experiences. PLease dont dwell at home go out and keep busy. "In the end, people will not be judged on what they have done to others, but they will be judged on what they have done to themselves." Good Luck
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