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I don't think he's not being confident here. He brought it out on the table in a subtle way. Hoping she will get the message.

Starfell, I thought that from the beginning. I agreed your husband trusts you. I feel you do do also. Nobody knows your relationship more than you do. I agree with annie, about boundries and respect.

Hey starfell, no tears. If it seemed was picking on you or at least in my post. I meant you guys seem to have a trusting relationship. That's all. Nothing against you at all.

Hey starfell, your husband is a smart man. He knows your attractive and he trusts you. You should probably sacrifice sometimes with the attention getting. He comes out of the bathroom and sees you with another guy chatting it up. And yes, the other guy leaves when your husband comes out. Makes all the sense in the world.

I can see that. It's really a no win situation. You try to help her she might get defensive and get destructive. If you be nice to her about it, she'll think it's okay and do it again. How did her boyfriend handle seeing that? Her parents should take charge here. I don't think it should be in your hands.

You got a tough situation on your hands. He sounds he may not care about his wife but his kids are getting in the way. It kinda sounds he's debating now what he should really do. I bet you'll never get his full attention you want in this situation. His kids are always gonna get in the way. If his wife is threatening suicide. Wonder who's causing the problems?

She went into the clinic and now she thinks she's messed up. Good for you. Is it possible you could of told her she didn't need the clinic? If you think she's cool?

lol, Ice has got lol, Ice in his veins. If you still like her, I would leave it alone for now. You made a mistake big deal as you say. It probably wasn't. But she answered, so that does mean something. But don't get all crazy and blow it with extreme military tactics. lol

I think to write actual lists of do's and dont's like this is not worth it. First off, right away your giving female's reading this a description of a man that doesn't fully exist, cause this list is so one sided. The best and the worst sides of male traits. Ask yourself, would you want, say your girlfriend/wife or just a girl you actually liked to read that list you wrote? Heck no. It's lists like these, and I've seen them everywhere on the internet, from guys who write that to obviously learn for themseves.

I Agree that, if someone's currently in the law married. They should be banned until the divorce is finalized. It makes sense. It's called a singles website. If your technically married, your not single, by law and shouldn't be allowed on the site.

She seems pretty much brainwashed by her ex. So it's up to you whether you want to decide to hang in there and try to unbrainwash her. Like you said an option is to move on and simply meet a girl who's into you. It's all up to you and your goals and how much you really want to spend time on her. The obvious choice is to move on, but be prepared for the worst. It's a nasty battle. Cause you'll get upsets and induendo's all the time of the past dude. She's been brainwashed, by everything. You obviously will try to brainwash her yourself. Poor girl, the hole that she loved your thinking, is just that, and your stuck in all that baggage. Your gold once I think she's completley over the other dude. If you wanna stay around for that, it's a decision you have to make.

Lol, I agree with that. I think personally after trial and error I guess over the years. Mixing definatley gives a better chance of a hangover. Also water level in the morning seems to hold truth. I'd try the snakebite after reading, it doesn't sound so bad. You would have to be smart and drink it at the right time though.

I like alot of stuff. I Like velvet revolver's , 'loving the alien' song, cool I like also swithchfoot's - dare you to move, when I hear it, cool song. I like songs that are cool. There's alot to mention.

So what do you do really, when you feel you may be getting cheated on or not? This is a tough question, cause you can never really know. Do you get upset right away and distrust, and look maybe foolish if your wrong? Or, is it really happening? I think you got to trust unless you get solid facts.

Hey anxietygirl. switch to diet soda, sugar is not addictive. It has has no affect if you look at things. I don't do drugs, but I can understand your question in a way. I Your healthy choice would be to be to cut down on sugar, that's all . I don't think you need a therapist for that. goodluck