jake0001

Allright here it is. Ive liked this girl for a while now, probably since i first saw her. well the thing is me and my ex broke up at the beginning of summer, and well when she went back to school she talked to the girl that i liked for a while and my ex knows me pretty well, and knew that ive liked her for a while and blurted out that i had a "thing" to that girl. my ex said she didnt seem surprised and was like flattered and all. i wasnt too happy that she did that, but oh well i tried making the best of the situation. i saw the girl a couple days later and talked to her for a lil bit, she was acting a lil unusual, she smiled a lot at me and was all giggley and stuff. i took this as a good sign, later that night i talked to her and i said that i knew what her and my ex talked about and told her...well, she had to go back to work and that was that, for a couple hours. well i went back to the mall and saw her at work again, i thought id take that time and i asked if she wanted to go to the movies with me, of course she declined and said that she had to be home at 10:30. thats the last time i saw her and that was two days ago. im not really sure what to do now, not sure if she likes me or whsts goin on... any advice??

well i know shes not friends...lets just say the two of them dont get along at all....my ex has always disliked her cause she flirted with me a lot when we were going out, and now she really dislikes her caase she knows theres something there...

well heres the story, ive liked this girl for a lil while now. my ex g/f broke up with me like 3 months ago, and since then i havent really gave anyone my number, or liked someone (too much). and well she broke up with her ex b/f a lil before my ex broke up with me, so we had something in common, and talk about. so thats why we started talking (outside of school) i thought she dropped hints all the time by asking if i was over my ex, telling me to come see her at work, telling me to come eat lunch with her, and to make sure i came to say good bye before i left the mall, i took these as some clues. well to put a long story short i asked what she was doing tonight she said going home and going to bed cause she was tired, so i said okay. so when i left i told her, if she gets bored and cant get to sleep, to call me, and then i gave her my number, she said if she couldnt get to sleep she would definitely call me. so that was cool and i left, but not before i said call me anytime do you think she'll call, or she even likes me?? ive been out of the game for a while now, just getting back in... PS she also said she just wanted to date people and not really have a relationship....was this a hint she dropped me??

heres a funny one you might want to try...i havent but here. ask her "how much does a polar bear weigh?" she says "how much?" you say "just enough to break the ice" and then you introduce yourself. now if you use that on any girl that is worth it, she'll probably laugh at it, and shell think you have a good sense of humor. that is if she hasnt heard that one yet. good luck

lots of stuff, anything really. hey im 19 and i have a friend who is 15, ive only known her for a couple of weeks, you just have to talk, everyone is differrent too. dont worry too much about it. maybe have a conversation about her day, or something.

thanks everyone, for the advice. im going to drop her lil clues, just to see what she does (right before i ask her out). unfortunately i didnt see her today. came to the mall just to see her, and man was she not there . oh well. tomorrow ill be out and about and hopefully ill be seeing her, and ill sure be coming back to tell everyone how it went. thanks again everyone

thats pretty funny, you have a point there ...well three to be exact...lol

alright i just got out of a 2 year relationship at the beginning of last month. so im new at dating again... heres the question, theres this girl (of course) . and well ive known her for a while now, ive always thought she was hot and very sweet, but i was with my ex at the time so nothing ever happened. so today i saw her in the mall so i came up to her and we talked for a bit, about work etc...and then she said i heard, she told me that she heard me and my ex broke up. i was like okay no biggie talked about it for lil while. then she asks if im over her, i said yes, and she said are you totally over her, would you go back out with her, i said yes im totally over her and no i wouldnt go out with her again. so we talked a lil more then she says well i know how you feel cause i broke with the Ryan (her ex) three weeks before school let out which was like in May sometime. so i didnt think anything of it we talked a little bit, then she got her food and she asked where i was going and i said this way...she said well im going to go eat in barnies (coffee place) come and see me later. so we went in opposite directions and i walked around in the mall for a lil while. i saw her right before i was about to leave so i went and said bye. and went to the bathroom waved to her again and left. now i just want to ask, was she throwing me signs?? cause im sure ill see her tomorrow and im wondering if i should ask her for her #, or something??? my ex even picked up on her a while back, and said she liked me, but i blew it off as nothing....so should i?

well i was the nice guy again tonight, man! well the hot girl i was talking about got a lil drunk, okay got a lot drunk. and of course i took care of her, while fending off the guys who wanted to take advantage of her. she threw up a lot and i was there holding back her hair and helping her stay up. i carried her several times, cause she couldnt walk. i also talked to her so she wouldnt fall alseep. i wasnt going to be the cool guy (like my friends) and make jokes on her behalf. i helped her out and i dont really care what anyone thinks of that cause it was the right thing to do. man, i thought about the whole nice guy thing, and you know what i say screw it, you know. im going to act like myself. and if a girl comes around, then she'll see the real me, and not someone im not. you know, i dont really get taken advantage of, cause i know when i am, but tonight was kinda odd you know. the hot girl i knew turned into a friend more or less. i really dont see her as that anymore, kinda weird, huh?

the funny thing is about the nice guys they do get into long relationships with girls. my ex g/f just broke up with me last month, right out of a two year relationship. im not going to be a "bad boy." i just want to talk more and stuff. all the girls ive been with were with me cause i was a nice guy. i just really dont like people telling me this. even my ex told me (after we broke up) that i should watch out for myself cause i am too nice most of the time and girls may take advantage of that. to this day i talk to my ex every so often, even though she kinda dumped me for another guy. thats how nice i am man! lol. oh well. im not going to change myself, cause i want to impress girls. i just wish that i would go out with them more. its not that im bad looking or anything. ive had 5 g/f's (maybe 6 but im not counting her, lol) so i havent been that bad in the department. theres a lot more to me. just need to get to know me i guess, im not boring by any means. and im not exactly quit either. but thats only once you get to know me. now i just need to know how to get the girls to know that other side.

i am shy a lot. i am slowly breaking out of this. i do speak my mind though (when the time arrises). but not too often as i think i should. i know one thing i do need to do is not to think so much when talking to girls. i get kninda of studdery when i like a girl. but yesterday i was talking to some girl that i was semi attracted to, just to see, and thats what it is, the girls i like i get nervous around. its the girls that i might find semi attractive the ones i speak to with no problem. this probably comes to no surprise to anyone, doesnt me. im going to speak my mind more around everyone, i have started already. believe it or not, i was worse, i just need to come around i guess.

well, all i have to say is its not a good thing to be called a "nice guy." cause you know the old saying "nice guys finish last." man i hate it. i dunno what to do, i act like myself and i end up being the nice guy. the story goes (once again) there was this really really hot girl at my friend marc's house tonight, and me and a bunch of frineds (including her) were just hanging out the past two nights. i havent talked to her too much, nor have i really done anything nice (at least i dont think) so she was talking and she turns to me and says " you know, you're really nice." i was like thanks (i think) with a smile, you know to be nice. but man do i hate that. i dont want to be the nice guy anymore, it seems like thats what everyone sees and thinks, they think im boring or something. if they got to know me they would see theres a lot more to me, im not as boring as they think. im pretty crazy once they get to know me. im sorry i kinda just wanted to vent i mean, i really dont know how to get out of it (you know?) cause i act like myself and its just i really cant get me anywhere with girls. (at least i dont think so???...) any advice?

maybe sit down and talk to him about whats going on. communication is key. you cant keep your emotions to yourself cause that will make it even worse when you guys do get into an argument about it. the best is to talk about it is when the both of you are in a calm mood. tell him you want to talk about whats going to be going on in december so that you know whats going to be going on in the future. tell him its better to talk about it rather than bottle it up till december then when it comes back up in december and it will be ten times worse than it is now.

too much spit is a bad thing. lol. just take it easy and let it happen. theres really no way to do it right. just go with the flow. if youre going to be french kissing for the first time take it easy, dont go all out and start macking on her. a lil at a time is best till you guys get to know each others styles. a lil tongue at first and then more and more lil by lil. dont go all out on her all at once. best advice i could give ya.

he seems to be (maybe) a lil shy. the reason he might not be "noticing" you is that he doesn't want to make it seem that hes into you. i do the same sometimes. spark up a conversation with him, if hes into you, youll know by his body language. he'll pay more attention to you after all that. he still might be a lil shy, so ask him over for lunch (not dinner) lunch is much more casual, and it will make it easier on both of you. i know if my neighbor (who i like too, lol) would ask me over for lunch id jump on that one in a moments notice. just use your instincts though, and dont get too much into him cause that might throw him off.