I know, I know, never the boss, right? Until a few months ago I totally agreed, but now I'm wondering...
Right now i'm in college and this is just a part-time job until I grad in a year, so its not like i'm expecting a career here. He is also not my main boss, as we both have the same main one and he only fills in when that guy's gone. He is 23, I'm 22, and we have a lot in common, I'm completely falling for him. We have a great time when we hang out, but I can tell he's not really sure how to handle this and me being rather shy I am even worse. He sends me serious signals, and then its like he gets second thoughts and stops, but we are flirting more and more and hanging out outside of work. It isnt against any company policies, in fact I think my head boss must have noticed some interest because he actually told me one day that something like that wouldn't be breaking any rules...
I just got out of a long relationship about 6 months ago and havent dated since, and I am worried I'm throwing away a job I love for some sort of rebound fling. On the other hand, I really wouldnt mind having a little fling with this guy and maybe seeing where it goes... I am about to graduate from college and have only dated 2 guys! The only thing that is stopping me is how horribly sticky this could be. And if I decide I am willing to risk my job and take a shot, how do I go about conveying a message like that to him? He seems to have had some experience with relationships while I am nearly clueless. Egh, this is all mixed up and it just gets worse when I try to write it down. Somebody speak some sense to me. Should I take a chance and maybe have some good times and see where it goes? And what if he isnt willing to do that, then I've messed my job up for nothing...