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It is emotionally draining. And it is hard not to let it get to you. I have been in a similiar relationship in the past. I learned that Insecrity drives women away, so does bragging, and clinginess. I spent so much time on my x girlfriend, i was always available, to nice, etc. The sleepless nights, the feelings we shared, the times we spent together lauphing and talking, all come back to me in the darkness of my mind. It all meant nothing in the end. I lyed once. Thats all what it took to be left. I just spent time making myself a better person, doing things that i enjoy, and going places i like to go. If my x can go on and find another man and be happy, whats holding me back. We all went through this. Its normal. But yet it hurts. And we dont like things that hurt. Especially something we love. Take care

Way to go. Being single does not mean to become depressed and sad and lonely. Get on with your life just as your x has. take care

I would advise that you comfort her, do what you can to raise her esteem up a little, give her a hug, change the subject, tickle her, but dont bring up her pimples. Tell her, "you look fine the way you are" Good luck.

I am sickened by this event. As i ponder the dark halls of my house tonight, warm tears stream my face lighting in the glint of the ever so slowly burning candels in my bedroom. how sick humans can be

LOL , true i dont want to hang with my parents anymore than i have to

I am 17 years old, i will be 18 in January 30th. I am in college now. I have alot of dates, i am a very good looking person, trust me. I want to move out but i dont have the money financially, (need advise on what to do about that). I have money coming in from a pelgrant at colledge which pays 500 bucks every semester, i work on campus and make 450 a month. I have a date tonight, tomorrow, and monday with all these different girls. My darn phone is always ringing. I can never stay past 9:30pm because of my curfew. My parents only trust me with the people they know. And they let me hang out with them till 10:30 at times. I went on a date yesterday and we went to the mall. I met up with her, we held hands, talked, kissed, she sucked etc. Remember that my car battery for my Grand Am 2002 is dead because i broke it that one night. So i went on a double date with my friend, and his girlfriend picked me up. His girlfriend tried hitting on me in the car. I am jealous of my friend, because he lives by himself and is having so much fun. i am not because my parents are strict. When i am 18 i am planning on dissappearing off the face of Cedar Rapids and to move some place else in a whole new city in Iowa. I need your help onto where i should move and how i should plan it. You helped me alot with advise on following parents rules, but my parents claim that they will disown me if i move out or join the american military, i know they wont, they just dont want to lose me. They never trust me, and i need your advice on this also....How can i get laid when my parents want me home by a specific time which is 9:30. I am confused. January is so long away, i said to myself one night, "Why not use this time waiting for my adulthood, to save money, meet more peopole and build my social network, and to research and plot out my living in a new apartment?" thank you

I need your advise on my parents. Please help me, this has been troubling me for a while.... I am 17 years old. My parents are both hot shots. My mom is always home. My parents are always constantly supervising me and checking up on me. They wont let me hang with my friends. They dont want me to drink, or have sex. They are very religious people. I cant even listen to music. I feel like a hamster sucking a lemon. Or more like a pink elephant trying to prove I need to exist. The other night i had a cover up. I told my parents that i was going to study at my friends house (they trust him) and that i will probably spend the night. My dad said, "no, i want you home by 11" I said "ok, but hopefully i can spend the night" I then told my dad my car wont start and that my friends car is getting fixed and that i cant get home. My dad said "ok, i will tow it for you, give me the adress," i then went out with my "girlfriend" to lose my virginity that night. it was my first night out. My dad called like 12 times. Each message he left got louder and louder. It got to the point in which i had to get home. Unfortunatley i did not lose my virginity. so i immediately parked my car infront of my friends house and killed tha battery. I broke it so my dad will believe that the car wont start for sure. I then kissed my girlfriend and hopped into my friends car and got a ride home from my friend. My dad was out of town. But my mom was home. She locked me out of the house, i came home 11:20. My mom just had twins so she is stressed alot. My dad called her and made her open the door for me. I said some things i should not have said to her and went to sleep. My parents never trust me, and never let me go out. IF they found out i have a girlfriend they will disown me. I am almost 18. When i am 18 i want to move out, but how will i have an icome financially? I need help on how i should handel my life now. I am in colledge now. i feel like crap. My parents are always making fun of me and my brothers and sisters pick on me.

I suffered from shyness before. I got out of it because, shyness led to deppression, led to lonliness, led to alot of insecurities. Dont be shy, look at your boyfriend in the eye. After all he is your boyfriend, respect him and love him. Look into his eyes of gold, see his heart of diamonds, and his tears of pearls. Enjoy your life, and love your self. Just as my dad told me, "to love oneself, is the beginning of a lifelong romance," good luck

Oh That makes more sense. Now, i agree with you. Thank you

I think that i would not want to be a Vicer if i was to be beaten up. I would just leave people alone. Its not your job to live peoples lives for them and buy them this and that out of goodness and get beaten up. It just is not worth it. I am sickened by this event of somebody helping another and getting beat up for it. be careful doing this

Its alright, dont be so hard on yourself. It is not worth calling him again. Putting on weight is not a problem, you can always lose it if you want, and when you do lose it, i bet you will be so beutiful.... just like back in the good old days when your mother used to fix your dress when you were a little girl, and take you to the park. Enjoy life, amuse yourself. Dont care about him if he does not care about you... later,

Relax, take it a step at a time. It is normal. We all find the one we really loved but yet we cannot reach out to them. Remember that if you dont tell her how you feel (which she would be dieing to know) then she will never know. Dont keep your feelings bottled up . Enjoy life. What qualities in her did you find appealling? What qualities did she have that others dont? Women come in all shapes and sizes, but they all have one thing in common and that is to be appreciated and loved. When asking her out I would be casual about it at first, for example asking her to be friends. But dont sweat it, if she does not want you then there is nothing you can do about it, but atleast you know as you ponder the dark halls of your home at night....that you tried.... I wish you the best luck

That sounds unnormal. I would leaver her. Dont get yourself worked up because of her, she is not worth it. Go after someone else and that will teach her a lesson. She might become nicer then. In the mean time dont let her upset you, all what you have to do is walk away, or deal with it. good luck.

yeah! but yet it is always nice to learn from one another

You sound like a very smart women, if i were you i would start searching for someone else if this keeps persisting. he does not respect you. If he did he would atleast be honest with you. You have us, if you ever need any support emotionally. take care