Stevie187

You need to relax a little let the right girl find you, be happy about your self and appearances, most people ugly there just unhappy, Im sure you are a wonderful guy, but you need to calm down, I promise and I never promise, one day when you least expect it she will find you......... BE HAPPY, You are one of gods creatures and you are BEAUTIFUL no matter what anyone says........ If you think your ugly, then people will treat you like that, if your happy and humble, same goes, remember that your a hottie and the girls are missing out........ GOOD LUCK ; )

my boyfriend and I smoke marijuana, we have for a while, I want to quit but he always seems to be stoned and then he wont talk and we dont communicate (when where not stoned we do). We dont do much at all, I have posted message about breaking up with him, but I thought maybe it was because we smoke, but I not sure anymore, I want us both to quit and then see if our relationship works, but everytime I bring it up hes like I dont care, I want to, and then I do, if anyone out there knows what I mean........ I do love him and I would like to see things work out, but I dont know how to say to him, if we dont quit, its over, I have taken the first step by cutting down alot, but he doesnt seem to understand that thats what Im trying to do, its hard when you live together..... got any ideas.

Iam to scared to go to a Gyno, i am 19 and have been sexually active since I was 17. i want to go, but I have doubts, can any woman out there tell me what happens, I dont want to talk to my mum about this as we arnt that close....... what should I do????? does it hurt, is it expensive, is it embarrassing, any ideas out there please let me know.......

Drink lots of water, thats all the advice that I have and see a gyno......

Dont worry I know how you feel, I relate...... The best advice I have is 1. dont worry, stress can be a major cause in acne...... 2. dont over use products eg. face masks, exfoliants, cleansers, use something gentle, nothing harsh, the product you put on your face, somethimes can make it much worse, dont do what I did and try and drink 2L of water a day, for starters acne is not water related, and it will make you feel bloated (to gooff the subject). I use Witchhazel, it stinks but it works and its gentle, also tea tree oli, is very good, teno6 has a roll on one (very good). Heed this advice, I hope it works. Remember, your beatutiful no matter what

People like you really give me the poops, you need to get over yourself and start trusting this girl, because of your jealously you might loose this one, there is nothing wrong with flirting as long as its controlled, eg if she is sitting on your mates lap you should trust her and your friend that nothing is happening or your time will be spolied. You need to grow up a little I know that Im being harsh, but someone has to tell you, EVERYBODY FLIRTS, and EVERYBODY makes mistakes, you sound very much like my boyfriend, but I soon fixed that, I cant stand it, its unfair, and it can sometimes become abusive WHY???? because you put her down without realising it, like saying stop flirting, I bet your girlfiend doesnt even realise what shes doing. If thats the way your girlfriend has fun than let her dont change her, or youll lose her, has she ever cheated on you before???? if not let it go mate, have fun, why dont you get out there and flirt with some girls, HONESTLY THERE IS NOTHING WORNG WITH IT........... I wish you good luck, sorry for being harsh.... but someone had to tell you......

Sometimes I feel so low that I just cant go on, I feel trapped in my relationship and I feel like the only way for me to leave, is to just pack all my stuff without him knowing and just leave, am I a bad person?????? I try to leave and something is always holding me back, Im so scared of being alone, that it hurts, I want to know that if I leave, there is someone there for me, because of our relationshio I have lost all of my friends and I feel like I cant get them back....... Sometimes I get enough courage to go and then I get to the door all things are packed and I just cant do it..... Im hurting Evan in the process and I dont want to do that anymore..... Sometimes I want to just curl up in a little ball and fade away........ any advice????? am I being silly like every one says?????/

I was talking to my boyfriend lastngiht and I was trying to tell him that Iwant things to change, that I want to have more fun, and he just went all quite and didnt answer, I have tried to break up with him, but he always makes me feel like a piece of shit about it. I want out of the relationship and Iwant to be happy, but he just wont let me, Im so scared of being alone, and being unhappy with my life, please someone anyone Im desperate for some tips on how I can make this easy on myself and on my boy.............. I love him and always will but I just need to be 19... I never go out and I am almost 20..... I need some inspriation.......

Well be your self for starters and dont get shy and talk alot....... not to much though. Be happy show her that your not affraid..... Be funny and compliments always go along way......... eg your look very nice tonight, I love your dress, skirt, top, etc........ be high on life, show her that your excited to be with her, and the rest should jst flow...... dont try to hard, if things arent going as planned be ready to dance........ prepare some jokes, ask lots of questions show that your interested in her, and you cant go wrong........ the rest is up to you GOOD LUCK BABY......

I would love to be your online buddy, my name is stevie...... I am from Australia, and you sound like a fun loving person. 19 years........

Dont stay with this one, you will never be free, you will always have to tell him where your going and what your doing, I am in the same boat, but he just doesnt want me to do anything. Be very very careful adn make yourself happy before anyone else. Happiness is the key to a long life.

It so easy to tell someone what they want to hear, hey guess what Im not like the rest either, I will listen to you and not hurt you yada yada but that doesnt mean that I will be like that forever, most people change and only out to impress no matter what, I would be very careful of these people in the future, but dont forget, there are some good ones out there, my mum always says, be careful of the quite ones.......... good luck.

Thankyou for your reply just what I needed to hear, but Im not sure if I want to make things work ***so confused****

You need some balls, get out there and get what you want, no one wants a guy who cant speak, sorry to be harsh but someone has to tell you, keep your head up, be strong and go for gold........

sorry posted twice (new at this).