laurarene

Hey, I posted a reply last night. I had an abortion. If you need to talk let me know. I don't care if it is a day from now or 6 months from now, you just let me know. I know what you are going through.

PLEASE don't until you think things through! I am not going to tell you not to have an abortion because it is your body but please think about another way, like adoption. The one thing I have learned was not to take advice from people that have not gone through the problem! I had an abortion and I had no idea that it would affect me the way it did. You really need to take some time and think about it and do your homework on the after affects of abortion. I listened to other people and I rushed in to it and because of that I will never forgive myself for it! Just to let you know when you go to a clinic they have these posters on the wall and reading material on women and choices HAHA what a joke don't expect any kind of help from them. They don't talk to you about your options they tell you about the (best way is abortion), (it's just tissue). I know I sound bitter and I am sorry about that but I need you to know how important it is to decide for yourself. If you need to talk I will listen. link removed

The one thing that I have learned is that PLEASE don't take advice from someone that has not been through the problem that you are going through. I have had an abortion and I asure you that I am paying for it now. I would give anything to go back into time and change everything. I do understand about the parents thing, I really do. You might want to check on giving the baby up. I wish I did that. People will tell you that after you have an abortion it's all over, I wish that was the case. You need to check on all of the facts on after you have an abortion. Let me tell you something if you go into those clinics like PLANNED PARENT HOOD they don't give you choices like they claim they give you only one answer ABORTION. I am not telling you not to have one but PLEASE it is not as easy as people say. You become a different person. Just becareful and do your homework! Please. It is life changing!