Kaystar87

Im going through a similar thing, we were together for 10 months, but it was 10 months i had my heart laid out for the whole world to see. I mean me and him did everything and been through everything and experianced everything together and one day he just stopped caring about me and no matter what i did it didn't help. I couldn't figure it out, and now he told me had found someone else on vacation who lived in tx *we live in tn and we're both 16* anyway he chose this girl who he talked to for just 7 days over me who gave him everything possible and was loyal to him towards the end. Needless to say i know how you feel, how can someone who said they love you and you love them hurt you this badly and move on so quickly? I can't really say, but trust me i know all too well how you're feeling. and it hurts but it does get better eventually......it feels good to do stuff and not think about, to see other people, and talk to 'em as little as possible. It's like that saying "If you love something let it go, and if it comes back its yours and if it doesn't, then it never was"

I had posted earlier called "You sometimes" in which i talked about my ex telling me he found a girl on vacation who lived in texas *we live in TN* and blah blah. Well i told him I had taken his advice and started talking to this guy and tomorrow im going out and playing some pool, well I need my stuff back from him. I called him and told I had to come over early tomorrow cause i was going to play pool and he was so mean with me, i mean he was like well i can't help you and and im like well will you be home tomorrow morning and he was goes Uh No, i guess you'll have to come over some other time, i mean he's not even helping me to get my stuff so i can get out of his life, i don't know what to do. Then i heard this thing on the news that effected us and i called him to tell him cause it applied to him and he didn't know, and he was like well if i get sued i get sued and i was like Im just trying to look out for you and he goes Whatever, have fun at your boyfriends tomorrow, and hung up. I don't have a boyfriend, I'm just talking to a few guy friends thats it, however he has that girl in TEXAS that he met, what's up with this? He found someone else and didn't forget to tell me, why the heck is he acting like this? I can't even get my stuff, he's not being cooperative, and he's acting jealous but yet he's the one who went and found someone else.....and gets upset cause i told him i was talking to a guy and took his advice....I need some opinions bad.

Well it sounds like to me she's cheating on you........I mean to me I couldn't tolerate that sort of thing no matter how much i loved the person, cause I'd look at it that if they loved me and i treated them right and they still did that.....then they didn't love me in the first place or not as much as they said they did and as i believed. Though I don't know where you stand on it, but it also sounds like that she's unhappy in with you or your relationship, i mean you might think it's been perfect and she hasn't, and a lot of times with a woman's infidility, it's because she is unhappy. I think the best thing you two could do is talk, really communicate, and ask her "Hey what's wrong?" encourage her to be honest and see what happens....

By the way, we live in Tennessee, she lives in TEXAS, that's going to be some expensive dates..........

I'm 16 right, well I dated this guy for 10 months, he's the same age and up until March everything was absolutely great, we did EVERYTHING together, I mean I'd do so much for him, I weeded his back yard while he mowed so it'd take less off of him, I made his family dinner, I made him cards all the time, i had our pictures made, i wrote him a Once Upon a Time story with us as the characters,I never even looked at othe guys, I told him how much i loved him everyday, I did EVERYTHING. So much time and alot of feeling invested into him, then towards the end, he started changing a lot. He was yelling at me and picking fights with me and showing a "I don't give a d*mn attitude" towards me and stuff i did for him, I couldn't take it anymore and broke it off, though i really didn't want to, he kept pushing me and pushing me, he even dared me to break it off. Well it was hard, cause i loved him so much, i couldn't get over him and I couldn't understand what I did wrong, the night I broke it off I was making him a football poster for season, I still gave it to him....after 2 weeks we were talking and becoming "More then friends" eventually he asked me back out, we dated for about 3 wks before he started taking out all his family's money problems and dad's problems out on me and screaming at me all the time, he was VERY unaffectionate, he wouldn't even hug me when he had me cry, he stopped giving me hello kisses when i'd drop by, he didn't do anything and that killed me. One night we got into it, and he dumped me, he called me the next morning and we decided that we weren't "broke up" just separated that i was giving him time to work his problems out....I went to his house the day before he left for vacation and all day i walked egg shells around him, he was so cold towards me and if i even looked like something was wrong, he'd snap at me angrily, everytime i tried to tell him how i felt he'd tell me i was being stupid, finally he goes on vacation and comes back and tells me he met a girl from Texas down there that he really liked, he kept going on and on and on about how they'd stay up till 4 am and blah blah and i told him to stop and he wouldn't, well that was yesterday and I just want some opinions, cause Im trying to move on.