Vavabond I want to thank you for the question you asked for I have been feeling the sameway. All though i have a different kinda problem i still wonder if I am ready or not. I am also 25 and in a new realtionship and i know he is ready to have kids and i am not sure i am also. I have been told seince I was 16 that I could nto have kids due to endomeiosis( sorry spelling is wrong) and it also took my mom and dad 13 year before they got me. The other thing is my ex of 6 years had 6 kids and he keep telling me I would make a bad mother for I could not really stand his kids. The reason is he let the run free and I was raised in a very strict house. I am scared that I might make a bad mother if I could not deal with his kids.
On the other hand I am teaching english in mexico right now and I love beening around the kids. My boyfriend said that he will help me with the kids when we have them. I am worried about the money and also the health issues for what if I can not have kids? I know I can adopt but I kinda would like my own. Also i like to work and have my time also. I am a only child and I can not do that to my kids. I have been looking at baby stuff and I have never done that before. I was always I will never have kids till i meet my boyfriend.
I am not sure I am ready for I also want to be married first and my boyfirend is like if it happenes before that it happens and he is willing to make it happen now. I get to se him in dec for the first time in a while for I have been in mexico and I am out of birth control and i have always been one that uses both condoms and birth control. I feel i am ready in someways and and in others I am not. How do you balance it and figure it out?
