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crookster_man

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  1. I'm talking more about important people who have touched your life. Some might call them soulmates. I'm not talking about the "one person out there for you" I'm talking about the deep connection we share with some people in our lives. It may only be for a reason, it may be for a season or they may be with us for a lifetime. These people are in our lives to help us grow, to teach us something. It may hurt to lose these people because they have touched our lives but we must understand that not every soulmate is meant to last a lifetime. That is the purpose of this post.
  2. Resurrecting some old school knowledge. Maybe it will help you today?
  3. Well do you enjoy playing games? if not that I would send her on her way. Why don't you dump her? clearly she is giving you grief. If she will not communicate with you. Perhaps it is time to walk away?
  4. I would say you win, because that other person has lost you from their life! You cut them off, so they lose the chance to be with you! NC is about healing. So heal yourself, think positive and move on.
  5. hehe well I was going through the unanswered posts... no post should go unanswered! I'll do more tomorrow.
  6. woot longest thread! oh, and who cares? obviously you do... well ask her if you don't believe her why are you dating her?
  7. hobbies? interests? family? share something together that's the easiest and best choice.
  8. Go for it, It's fine to see as many people at once as you want. But if you dicide to go "steady" then you better live up to it. Lying will get you into a whole boatload of trouble.
  9. You were happy with the "situation" until he changed it now your true feelnigs come out and your are pissed you missed your chance? Hmmm well you can eithr pretend to ignore your feelings and lose a friend and potentially more. Or you can swallow your pride and have a chat with him. Tell him how you really feel
  10. I am in the exact same situation well maybe father along. It's been about 3 years since I left the person that led me here ;o) I've dated lots since then and have had a few girlfriends that didn't really mean much. Right now however I'm starting to look beyond and realizing that I'm ready for more. (so hopefully I don't push them away again). Anyways, you will know when you are ready. It's not like you're a robot. You still feel things. Sadness, excitement, happiness and so on. Right? Because if you are a stone stoic wall that is a whole other situation. If you still feel you're just a lot more guarded that is all. You'll know when you are ready. No rush
  11. haha, well as long as they aren't mutant boobs it's okay. There is somebody for every body (spaced on purpose).
  12. Most therapist don't try to change the way you think. They only help you see the truth you already know. They ask you questions and have you answer them. The questions you ask yourself but for some reason are afraid to answer. Therapist create a nutreal/safe environment where you can talk to yourself freely. It's really a good thing, especially if you feel you cannot speak to any friends or family. Everyone needs a ear.
  13. There are far worse things then talking to a therapist, why do you fear them?
  14. I'm sorry for the pain you are feeling. It must be very hard. You want to know what you can do to bring her back? This is not about you, she and only she can live her life. She must make her bad choices. You have 2 options, tough love. IE cut her off for the sake of your family and yourself. Or love her unconditionally and accept that people make terrible choices sometimes. I am sorry for your pain.
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