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I dont know sometimes it is like he wants to be waited on other times its like he wants me to tell him how he is doing as a bf. but he doesnt just ask once, he asks a million zillion trillion times. and everytime i am honest with him then he acts like he is really hurt. but there are other times when he is good and gives me my space. He and I are both 21 and yes sometimes he is clingy and throws tantrums when i tell him i dont want to be held on to all the time. Everytime I am open and honest he just looks away like he is gonna cry. So I feel like I am bein punished for being truthful with him. I dont know what to say to him anymore its just like he wants to know but isnt ready to hear it. jess

I was thinking along those lines. but i dont wanna be mean. its not in my nature to be mean but i cant help but think "hey where is the MAN i met a few months ago?"

I dunno, I have tried stuff like that and then he just looks at me and asks if I am pissed off at him. And I tell him I am not pissed just a lil disappointed or upset. I dont know what to tell him I am really at the end of my rope here.

Help!!! My bf of 2 months is acting like a little baby. He wasn't like this when we first started dating. Its almost like he expects me to be his freakin mother or something. I know he had a rough childhood with his mom not around and all but I need a man not a lil boy. How can I tell him how I feel without breaking his heart? Jess