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  1. Hi. I will try to keep this short. I’m 39M and she is a 28F. My ex and I decided to go on a date. We recently broke up and I was very devastated. She told me she had no attraction to me and wanted to be friends after two years. After talking to her more it appeared there were a number of mistakes I made that she wasn’t voicing that made her lose interest. I really needed to change and I had little insight into it. Being less selfish, doing activities she likes and spending more quality time with her were big ones. I was obviously heartbroken and devastated but after reaching out to her and explaining I understood her concerns she thanked me and appreciated it. She said she’s open to giving it another try after I asked and even began complimenting the things she found attractive about me in the beginning of our relationship. She wants to go slow which is fine by me. So we will soon have our second first date. My goal is to do fun activities, keep it light and just enjoy the moment. I want to make her smile and if I can do that I think it will be a success. If you guys have any advice I’d really appreciate it. I am very nervous and still in a lot of pain but I don’t want to lose this opportunity.
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