matt24

You're not at all wrong for wanting an explanation. I believe any adult with an ounce of respect for the other person should have the decency to explain their actions. You deserve that as do all of us. Your situation is difficult, and I have absolutely no idea what's going on in his head. I have a similar situation, to long to explain, so I understand your feelings. Don't blame yourself though...you did what you thought was right. Don't second guess, we all do it though, myself included. 10 days is a long time especially since he gave you no warning or told you he had plans. That's ridiculous, anyone with half a heart would be upset. Again, not your fault. He sounds like he has a lot of issues he needs to deal with. Everything you did was out of concern for him and the relationship.