Girls dont date guys for looks, I see ugly monsters with hot girls all the time, and most of these guys have personalities of a stone. Its basically ewither youve got it or you dont, and if your personality doesnt work and you act like yourself which you probably do, use a fake one, all guys do, dont act like yourself, act strong and macho, trust me its the laws of nature girls dont want a sissy who acts all quiet they go for the loudmouth who attracts attention, make up stories about big aspirations youhave and impress them even if it is lies. This will work, lure her in, then shell be yours(then you can act yourself)
Peace
P.S. Dont listen to the be yourself B.S. it doesnt work