EternalGrace
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I wouldn't worry too much. Just follow the doctor's orders, and continue administering any medication that was prescribed for your baby. Sometimes while, or after you've been ill, you don't feel like eating. I would mention a possibly allergen to the antibiotic, (if that's what she's on,) but since she's acting like her normal self, I wouldn't worry too much about that. I hope she gets well soon!
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I've been dating this guy for about 2 weeks now. We hang out quite a bit, and get along really great. We always greet eachother with a hug, and depart eachother with a hug as well. We're going out on my boat tomorrow, and I was wondering. What are some ways to make it known that you're ready to be more intimate? Not intimate in the sexual sense, but holding hands, cuddling, maybe a kiss or two?
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WARNING: Parental Discretion is Advised
EternalGrace replied to EternalGrace's topic in Online Dating
Just a little update. I went out with him tonight, along with a bunch of friends from school. It was absolutely wonderful. He smells so good too. -
I'll be 20 in a few months, so I'm not much younger than you are. You're most definitely not alone in these feelings. There are times when I want a boyfriend, someone to love. There are other times when I love being single and not having that commitment. I'm kind of shy when it comes to guys, so I don't do much flirting, but I do my fair share of talking to different people when I go out. I don't know what drives the fluctuation in mood, but it can be very confusing at times. Actually, I met a guy I go to school with about 3 months ago or so, and we get along so great. He and I have both talked about starting a relationship. There are times when I can feel it in me, it's what I want. Then again, there are periods where I don't know if it's what I want at this point in life. The way I look at it, everything happens for a reason. If you're meant to be together right now, it'll happen.
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Although I can't tell you the "correct" decision to make, I would urge you to do what you feel is right. I understand that you're very confused at this point, but if you were to fast forward to the future, after having the baby aborted, how would you feel then? Your boyfriend may feel that adoption is worse than abortion, but many loving families adopt children and give them the best life they possibly can. Personally, I don't believe in abortion, but that's beside the point. If I was in your position, I would give the baby up for adoption. You never know who your child will end up with, but SS does everything to the best of their ability to ensure that the children are placed in a caring family.
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Wow, there's quite a maturity difference between a 14 year old and a 17 year old. I sure hope you like her for more than her body. If not, then the kiss won't be too great.
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im gona die who da hell will notice
EternalGrace replied to i_need_no1's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
Adolescence can be a tough time for anyone. I think it may be especially hard for boys, as they don't normally mature as quick as girls do. Some boys hit puberty earlier than their friends do, so they feel a bit out of place. I don't know if this is an issue in your case, but you're too young to be feeling this way. As for your body, don't worry about it. You're sure to "grow" into it, so to speak. As for your friends spreading rumours about porn, what do you need with them? They obviously aren't real friends if they do such things. Just open up, be yourself, have some pride, and others who are worth your while will take notice. -
That's a tough situation to be in. She lied to you, and sure, I can see how that could dwindle your trust in her somewhat. Here's something to think on though. If she's sending you fake pictures, maybe she has self confidence issues. You seem to really like her as a person; great personality etc... If I were you, I'd talk to her about it, and maybe you'll find out what drove her to do it. As a woman, the only reason I would send out fake pictures is if I was insecure. Good luck!
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Some choose to take their glasses off, others leave them on. I think it may be easier with them off though. It's personal preference.
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I don't know who you're directing that at, ck. I presume you're directing it at girls in general, but I am being real. It sounds to me like your view of the female species has been tainted due to personal experience, and you're losing all hope; either girls are extremely shallow, or they sugar coat everything. I can't change your mind, but it's not true in all cases. There are some very genuine people in this world. Search hard enough and you will find them. The guys that hit on me tend to be shallow, too. They don't always realize that I have a brain attached to my body. "Love me for my mind, cuz I'm a dangerous heart..." (What a sad reality). Very cool, Music, very cool.... 8)
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This is totally off subject, but, a mysoginistic nature, huh? Just curious, you got a band?
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The major reason I've never been in a serious relationship before is because the guys that show even the slightest interest in me, are never my type. Like I mentioned before, I don't count anyone out. There's more to a person than just the outter appearance. I understand that a lot of girls say that, but I'm being completely honest and straight forward. If a guy hit on me that I found to be extremely attractive, but he turned out to be an arrogant b@stard, I wouldn't want to have anything to do with him. In my opinion, that type of attitude can tend to make a person ugly. There's a big difference between having confidence and being conceited. By the way, I object to letter B. I'm only an extremely small portion of the female population, but partying egotistical jerks make me sick. Attention wh0res drive me up the wall!
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I'll be 20 in a few months here, and no, I've never been in a serious relationship before. I agree that society makes it tougher on guys; males being expected to ask the girls out, etc.. That's not to say it doesn't happen, though. Heck, if I came accross someone I felt a connection with, I'd ask him to hang out.
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He committed adultary, I'm afraid she's crawling back
EternalGrace replied to EternalGrace's topic in Friendship and Friends
You're very right. She's used to having him around all the time, and I think that she's in the mindset that she can't function without a boyfriend. The same goes for him, too. It's just a shame that he would go off with other girls. -
One of my closest friends was with her boyfriend for 3 and a half years. Just a few weeks ago, she found out that he cheated on her. This was not the first time, mind you. Well, she had to have surgery about a week ago, so she's been at home moping about this guy. The night before I went to visit her, I told her how I felt about her ex. I tried to assure her that she deserves better and that she doesn't need him in her life. Especially while trying to recover from surgery. She complied fully. I understand that 3 and a half years is a long time,and she's not going to get over him in a split second; but it kills me to watch. When I went over to her house to visit her, the ex boyfriend showed up. He kissed her on the forehead as if he did nothing wrong. Quite frankly, it makes me sick. I've done everything in my power to let her know that she doesn't need him in her life. He's deffocating on other girls, yet he goes back to my friend when he "feels" like. I don't sense any sincerity there. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. As a friend, it kills me to see this. I feel helpless... P.S~ If you were him, wouldn't you feel slightly embarrassed to go back and face her family and friends knowing that they're aware of what happened?