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alright.. thanks so far.. but girls.. can you give me any advice on what you think the best (should i say, "technique") way to get your man off on oral sex is, that I can tell her?

no.. I can orgasm on my own.. but how long is a VERY long time?

I need help.. I've been in a relationship for my girlfriend for a year now, and we just started to perform oral on each other. I can make her orgasm on a frequent basis, but I can't seem to orgasm. I gave up looking at videos, etc. two months ago, but was never too large at looking at that material in the first place, to really make me just get off to that. Everything she's doing is making me feel good, and I feel comfortable around her, but I just can't climax. Any ideas I should tell her? Please help me!

thanks i appreciate the advice

Ok there's this girl that I know up the street that I knew from about 6 years ago. We used to be good friends (we treated her as one of the guys) and then we just grew apart. So I finally built up the courage to call her tonight at 9:20 and when i called her mom answered saying "it was too late for her to talk." I found it odd and she asked what i wanted. I told her "Im just her old friend who lives down the street and i just wanted to talk.." she then became ballistic and said angrily "WHAT DO YOU WANT?" and she hung up. How should I get ahold of her and what should I do if i call and her mom answers the phone? I dont know if they're really overprotective of her or what. Please help me out!!

Wow that is really helpful. Thanks a lot.

Hey thanks a lot for the advice guys and if you have any more advice just feel free to post it. Thanks a million everyone. I will be sure to try out your advice next time I'm alone with her.

Could you give me an example of what to say? I mean should I say something like "Are you not ready for this?" or "Is there something wrong that I dont know about?" or "How do you feel about taking this further?" or what? Do you think it would be better to talk to her in person or over the phone about this?

Ok I understand. I mean I talk to my friends and they say that they've went further than making out in like only a couple of months and I just feel like I should make the relationship closer and more exciting for the both of us. We've liked each other forever and when she says sorry and brushes my hands away I just feel really rejected like she doesen't love me as much as I love her. I know what I think is wrong but I dont know how to ease my mind of this and just be happy with what we are doing. Is there any way to make me ease my mind and take this heavy load of stress of of my shoulders? What about doing something else to further our relationship?

She's sixteen and im turning sixteen in a week. We have about a four month age difference. Do you think she's just uncomfortable with me doing it or is she uncomfortable with having anyone feel her up? What should I say when I talk to her about it?

Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for over a year and we have been making out very frequently. I wanted to take it further by feeling her up but when i tried a couple of times, she kind of brushed my hands down and whispered in my ear "sorry". We are really into each other but I dont know how to make her more comfortable to let me feel her up. Does anyone have any advice on how to make her more comfortable or what else to do to take our making out further? Thanks a lot

Hey listen i understand what you're going through but whatever you do don't kill yourself. I know you're most likely not thinkin of killing yourself seriously but just remember that its not a game and you are gone forever when you die. About your ex though, if she is laughing at you, then it seems she is not the right one for you. You could confront her face to face and ask why she dumped you and why she acts the way she does. Well, I really hope you get over this well. I know its hard and very depressing but just keep livin day by day.

My girlfriend and I are really into each other. I have been going out with this girl for 11 months now and we have been making out every weekend for the past 2 months. The last 2 weekends i tried to feel her up and last weekend she said "dont go up there" and when i asked her about it earlier tonight she said "I dont want to go that far". Is there any advice to getting my girlfriend comfortable to let me feel her up?!?! Please post any advice

hey i just wanted to thank you a lot for the advice that has been posted so far. I will be sure to take it all into account. Yeah we're both goin on 16- she's 2 months older. Now should I feel her up while making out? laying on the couch with her? and also if i ask her if she's up for it what do i say? i dont just go like 'hey do you mind if i feel you up?' or what? thank you so much though and also please tell me how i can make the kiss more interesting with my hand placement and making the kiss more passionate... thanks!

Hello I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now and we have been getting together for the past five weekends really getting into each other (making out passionately). I heard from a friend of mine, who goes out with her close friend, that my girlfriend probably wouldn't mind going a little further (going up her shirt). Im up to it and I'm going to do it this weekend coming up so i need some advice... -Do I feel her up under or over her bra -Do I feel her up while we are sitting or laying down -What is some body language to know if she is enjoying it or not -What do I do when I'm there? -Also, how do I spice up making out, to give her a night that she will really enjoy (what else to do while we are making out) Basically, I just want to spice up the nights that we make out to make it much more exciting, stimulating, and enjoyable for the both of us. PLEASE give me all the advice you can give! Thank you so much!