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  1. street
    ive just started a new relationship so i thought i would be a responsible person and have a sexual health check... they did the usual swap tests but they also took a sample of blood, what would they be testing the blood for? just wondering as i don't get the results for a week...im 99% im clean but u never know i suppose...
  2. street
    no i wouldn't like it, thanks ur rite..won't send anything!!
  3. street
    i know this question gets asked a million times but i need advice.. i split from my ex last may after 4 years, well 7 months later we get back together, this lasts until june this year(5 months) and we split again, both times its her both times we split on good terms...contact has been minimal and friendly...this time i don't want her back as i know were not rite together..ive meant a new girl who i really like...anyway its the ex b'day next week and it will feel very strange not sending her a card...i want too but out of respect for the new girl should i send one?? any help and i would be grateful!, thanks
  4. street

    advice please

    street replied to street's topic in Dating Advice

    yeh thanks, perhaps i will ask her out...if she says no then so what!! i know what u mean about the ex, but im soo over her..after it not working the second time i know it wasn't meant to be!!
  5. street
    Well my story is went out with ex for 4 years she dumps me, 6 months later I meet someone else..we go out for a month only dates nothing pyshical…were getting on really well but ex comes back and even though I really liked this new girl I couldn't not try it again with the ex… Well we last only 6 months and I call it off as it wasn't the same and to be honest I never forgot about the new girl… Well its been 2 months since I became single and I bumped into the girl I dated for a month at a party..she looked hot!! I think she still likes me and I would love to ask her out for a drink but I know I really hurt her when I got back with the ex…shall I just forget her or ask her out for that drink?? Im over the ex now and would like to start something with the new girl but I feel bad for dumping her that time!! Do u think she would say yes as I could tell she still liked me!! Advice please!
  6. street
    Together 4 years She dumped me, still not sure why..still loved me etc!! Apart 7 months Got back on new years eve No strategies as such…. Got back 5 months later to split again!! So my experience is getting back together never works, but im sure in other cases it has worked!! So in the space of a year, I have split up twice and boy does it hurt!! It feels like for the last year ive been unhappy…im about 6 weeks into this split and n/c is the only answer..hope this helps in some way
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    Not a major post but I was just thinking how sad it is to break up with someone u have spent along time with, I have accepted me and the ex are over and im movin on, but I just can't help feel sad. Now theres a good chance I will never speak to this person again and after all that we have shared together.. When I was young I always thought I would get married and spend the rest of my life with someone, I now know this is rare and that I will have many partners over my lifetime..i suppose I will always feel something for this girl but relise its over..just can't help feeling sad over this
  8. street
    good idea, i would go with that...u right u havent got anything to lose..but u don't want to get hurt again, as ive been hurt twice now and its killin me...but what doesn't kill u makes u stronger right?! pm if u need other advice! cheers
  9. street
    i split with my girl after 4 years..i stayed friends for a few months until i found out she was dating someone else, so i then told her to leave me alone...it lasted a few weeks and she was back texting emailing etc. i kept her at arms length..after 7 months we got back together...it lasted 5 months and we have just split again..i not saying don't get back together but it was never the same for me...people change...im grieving for the girl of the first relationship not the second... i think the same as u, shes wonderful i will never find anyway like her..but how do people ever move on and meet someone else as people do, otherwise there would be hardly any couples in the world! i don't want to sound harsh but by the sounds of it she just wants to be ur friend, make her make a decision "i want it all or nothing" see what she says..otherwise ur letting her have the best of both worlds... i know how hard it is as ive been there, but only now im i seeing it the right way..good luck
  10. street
    ive been reading this post and i really feel for u..i had all this from my girlfriend, i still love un find u attractive but don't want to be with u as i feel were just friends!!! hello isn't that enough to be with someone!!! they don't know there own mind but i guess there must be something that doesn't feel right and they don't know what it is.. u living with him still is a tough situation, i would move out and cease contact, he will be back begging, trouble is u might not want him back.. take good care of urself we will get through this!!
  11. street
    thats tough mate, ive had this twice from the same girl..all together we were together 5 years so i know how hard it is...u have to let her go, the way i think of it..is we werent right for each other and this has happened for a reason.. as for being friends im not sure that could ever happen in are situations..me and u still love are ex's and we will never heal and meet someone else if they are still around...so i say cut the contact again and carry on with what you were doing b4..sounds like u were getting over it!! pm if u need advice ive been there and im still going through it, as we split for a sceond time only 3 weeks ago!
  12. street
    i know what ur going through, im in the same situation..split after 4 years, seven months apart and then back together for 5 months..split again, with the i love u but sometimes only see u as a friend.. well that was 3 weeks ago,,,for all i know she could be with someone else..it seems women move on quicker! its soo hard to do this all again!!
  13. street
    i went through this exact situation last year, been together 4 years her then givin it im not sure im happy etc, we were madly in love but it didn't stop her leaving!! it took 7 months of being apart until she cam back.. in that time she went out with someone else for 5 months! but she was still talking to me until i told her to leave me alone, even then she couldn't go longer than 2 weeks...eventully she came back when i was going out with someone else! we got back for 5 months but have just split again and im doing the no contact thing, my advice to you is to avoid contact with her..it gives them time to think and really see what it is like without u in there life!! i think u have a good chance of working this out but in the mean time live ur life who knows u may meet someone...pm if u want some coaching as it feels like im an expert in this now!!
  14. street
    i know how u feel, it took me 7 months to come close to moving on after a 4 year relationship and then she came back, 5 months later and we have split again and i have to go through it all again!! it hurts like hell not to be with them but we can't waste time on someone who does want to be with us! we have alot to offer and someone else will be so lucky to have us!! thats how i look at it even though some days its hard to think like that!! memories are exactly that, MEMORIES! they will always be there, one day we will be able to look back at them and smile! its all part of life!! hang in there..
  15. street
    Well ive finally accepted im single again. I don't feel ready for another relationship but I also have a horrible feelin that I won't ever meet anyone else again!! Its more of a fear, I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life I like havin a partner…. Is it this natural I suppose when u get dumped its natural for ur self esteem to get hit….im still quite young well 26 and I have a lot going for me but even that doesn't help me…. Its like I want to meets someone else b4 the ex does!! Its not a competion but I suppose if im in love with someone else when she meets someone new it won't hurt me!!! Just rambling u suppose
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