Hi,
I am really heartbroken now. I had a girlfriend with whom i had been going out for around 9 yrs. We had a very nice relationship all these years. When i started saying her that we shud get married then she started telling me she needs time. This was mainly because her parents were not accepting our relationship becoz we were from different religons.
Lately she started saying she needed space to live and we used to get into lots of arguments. One fine saturday we had nice fun together and the very next day on sunday she said she wants to meet her friends. She went out and after that she stopped calling me. I tried to call ehr but she would not speak and she started saying she has ended this relationship and now she wants to concentrate on work. She also said she is suffocated and all that stuff.
I started getting feelings that she is with somebody else and the next weekend i went to a place hoping i will find her there, and she was there sitting with a guy. I confronted them and she said they were friends. This guy started making fun of my tears and my Ex also started laughing when he was making fun of me.
She told me to stay away from her life. I was devestated and then i didnt call her up for a week. After a week i called her up just to hear her voice and she said i want to give u everything u have given me and dont call me. I got hurt and angry that instead of feeling gulty she is shouting at me. And i also said i want everything back and bext day we met and i returned her everything and i she gave me everything.
Now i dont know what shud i do. She says i dont have any right in her life. I didn everything for her. We had a pregnancy scare, I left my jobs to be with her because my jobs required to go away from the country. I bought a separate apartment so we can live there after marraige and i tried whatever i can do to c to it that she remains happy with me.
I feel she met this guy on the Sunday she went out with friends and after that she left me. What should i do i am heart broken. I cannot live without her. 9 yrs is a big time to be with somebody. Please help me i really need advice.
Thanx
