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  1. mmackenna
    how lucky to be in such a position! But I think it's more than luck. There's a reason you're involved with this person and I am not, and that's because to this family you are set apart from every other ordinary person. You must be a good person and congratulations for it. I think if you would ask this person where you stand it might be uncomfortable. like if that nerd in high school came up and said "im you're friend right?" You'd feel obligated to say "of course you are" whether you could stand to be around the nerd or not. Think about what happens with your other friends? Do you and this person exchange personal details? If you do, there's a good chance that Mr./Ms. B list thinks of you as a friend.
  2. mmackenna
    it really should be her decision to get back together with you. As hard of blow as that is. Sorry anyway, i'm going to tell you something that my father always told me not married are ya" It has some truth. It sounds like your life is completely centered around work and her. When do you get to have fun? If you go to clubs, have a good time. Maybe she'll be there and you can help her to remember what a good person you are and why you guys were together in the first place.
  3. mmackenna
    This is my advice, don't jeopardize the time you are able to spend with her now! you said yourself you have a car. USE IT! lol when she gets to college, drive your little self up there when you can. She'll be a free woman, and you can see her as much as she allows time (remember she has to study too). You'll see college is a good time for freedom. And it's good that you're talking about marriage, however with how her relationship sounds, give it some major time. Think about this. I bet he's not for sure what you're doing behind his back (even though it may be nothing) He was an 18/19 year old boy once himself and he remembers what little thoughts crossed his mind. He's worried about that and PLUS his baby girl, his pride and joy is leaving him, how sad is that?
  4. mmackenna
    her friend would probably put you in your place if you ever tried to persue her. there's rules about dating your best friend's ex and that rule is you just don't. if you are no longer interested in your girlfriend, that's perfectly fine... i say tell her what you feel. But please, don't go after her best friend.... there are other fish in the sea
  5. mmackenna
    wow impressive routine, I may have to try it!!!! do you buy chicken breasts? thanks for the post
  6. mmackenna
    have you talked to him about the way you feel? It can't hurt. Tell him that you are feeling that he isn't contributing. Ask him why he's gotten so laxed with the relationship.
  7. mmackenna
    ha! that's pretty harsh. It's been my experience that women never know what they want and they can't even figure out themselves, so how are guys supposed to figure us out? Just keep trucking along and be yourself. If a person can't like you for who you are... you know the rest
  8. mmackenna
    hey thanks for the tips guys, just one question... how do i uh flush myself out? (ps i have started doing those excersizes that were suggested my muscles hurt but i feel great)
  9. mmackenna
    I don't think you're a coward. I think you're normal (maybe a tad bit extreme, but mostly normal). There are STILL exes of mine that I will run away from. I think your real problem is confidence, not jealousy. Ask your girlfriend why she is with you (only once though cuz it gets kind of annoying after awhile). Or better yet, have her write them down so you can remind yourself what you have going and what you can offer her. It's great therapy. Also you should write down the good things about you. Don't try to convince yourself otherwise. You are a good person with a lot of talents I'm sure. Just don't forget it.
  10. mmackenna
    I have that problem too. They used to call me the "second dun" at school cuz I was so pale I could blind people with my whiteness. I know I still can't get over it, but I suggest sunless tanners (remember you get what you pay for with them) and a WHOLE lot of sun screen. You can keep your tan up and still be safe.
  11. mmackenna
    there's gotta be a fitness guru in here, so why not ask? Anywho. I've got about 2 months till I get to see my boyfriend again. My big problem is my gut. I'm pretty thin everywhere else. My lower abdominals are the worst. Anybody got any fantastic exercises that help the flabby tummy syndrome? Can I step up my crunches any? Thanks bunches p.s. diets suck
  12. mmackenna
    Breakups are always hard. I think in your case you just need to give your relationship more time. Just wait it out and then you'll know what both you and she want.
  13. mmackenna
    aww that's sad that you can never trust her again. I think maybe since you do love her so much, that you could possibly try to trust her. Try to find out exactly what happened that night. If nothing happened, what's the difference of her staying at a girlfriend's house? I know I almost broke up with my current byfriend (that would have been a huge mistake) because I know he's better than me. I was just afraid he'd get to know me and realize what an unworthy person I am and break up with me. I didn't want to delay the process any longer. Girls are just like that sometimes. Anyway, good luck with your relationgship and thanks for sharing.
  14. mmackenna
    most guys or boyfriend material guys?
  15. mmackenna
    I had a vocal teach last year who would touch and hug and even kiss his students (not on the mouth but other places on the face). He would touch me too. I know it's not easy to stand up to an adult especially your authority figure. Direct confrontation might not be the best plan of action for you. Maybe you need to tell someone you trust who you know won't fly off the handle (like my dad did). it doesn't have to be another adult at first. Just gradually gain a group of supporters you know who can help you through this I know avoidence is not a healthy way to deal with anything, but if standing up to him isn't an option...
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