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ALTHOUGH IT MAY BE HARD YOU HAVE TO DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO SPEND IT TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE ELSE. IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU THAN HE WILL NOT WANT YOU TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU ARE UNHAPPY IN.

ME AND MY EX BROKE UP TWO MONTHS AGO. I STILL CARE ABOUT HIM AND WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND MY BEST FRIEND KNOWS THIS. I'VE COME TO FIND OUT THAT LATELY MY BEST FRIEND HAS BEEN HANGING WITH HIM. THEY MEET UP AT CLUBS AND PARTYS. YOU SEE WE ALL USED TO WORK TOGETHER. THEY WORKED WITH EACHOTHER FOR TWO YEARS BEFORE I STARTED WORKING WITH THEM. SO SHE KNEW HIM FIRST. EVEN WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER SHE WOULD CALL HIM AND ACT LIKE THEY WERE BEST FRIENDS. I NEVER SAID ANYTHING BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW IF I HAD THE RIGHT TO, SINCE THEY WERE FRIENDS FIRST. BUT I CAN'T HELP TO BE BOTHERED BY IT. THE THING THAT REALLY BOTHERS ME IS THAT WHENEVER THEY CHILL TOGETHER SHE NEVER TELLS ME. I ALWAYS FIND OUT FROM HIM. HE ACTUALLY CALLED ME TODAY. WE WERE TALKING AND HE SAID HE CHILLED WITH HER OVER THE WEEKEND. WHEN I ASKED HER WHAT SHE DID SHE TOTALLY LEFT HIM OUT OF IT. HE TOLD ME THAT SHE CALLED HIM TODAY AND ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED TO CHILL LATER. NATURALLY HE INVITED ME BUT WHEN I CALLED HER AND ASKED WHAT SHE WOULD BE DOING LATER SHE SAID SHE WAS JUST GOING HOME AND DIDN'T EVEN MENTION THAT SHE HAD TALKED TO HIM. WHAT IS GOING ON? DO YOU THINK SHE'S TRYING TO GET WITH HIM OR MAYBE SHE ALREADY HAS. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE HELP!

I KNOW EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU TO MOVE ON AND THAT MIGHT JUST BE WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. BUT I THINK WHAT YOU REALLY NEED IS CLOSURE. CALL HER JUST ONE LAST TIME. JUST TELL HER YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE THINGS END ON BAD TERMS. APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE THE ONE WHO DID WRONG AND IF SHE IS THAN TELL HER YOU FORGIVE HER. TRUST ME ONCE THINGS ARE SET STRAIGHT AND ALL GRUDGES ARE GONE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO MOVE ON. I DON'T KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO TELL YOU TO JUST MOVE ON SO DON'T JUST TAKE MY ADVICE. IF YOU REALLY FEEL THAT YOU LOVE HER THEN TELL HER. ASK HER IF SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU AND IF SHE DOES FIGHT TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT BUT IF SHE TELLS YOU SHES MOVED ON DO THE ONLY THING YOU CAN, LET GO. IN THE END, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

ME AND MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP ABOUT TWO MONTHS AGO. WE WERE TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND HE WAS MORE MY BEST FRIEND THAN ANYTHING. WE BROKE UP BECAUSE I WAS GOING TO CLUBS AND PARTYING WIT MY GIRLS ALOT. I JUST TURNED 18 AND HE RECENTLY TURNED 24. HE SAID THAT I WANTED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT LIVE THE LIFE OF A SINGLE GIRL. IT WAS TRUE THEN BUT NOW THAT WERE NOT TOGETHER I MISS HIM SO MUCH. WE STILL TALK ON THE PHONE AND CHAT ONLINE BUT I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM SINCE THE BREAKUP. I'VE DATED SINCE THEN BUT I COMPARE EVERY GUY TO HIM AND IT NEVER WORKS OUT. I THINK I MAY LOVE HIM AND I WANT TO GET BACK WITH HIM BUT IM TOO AFRAID TO SAY IT. WHAT SHOULD I DO. PLEASE HELP. IS IT LOVE OR LUST?