saltandvinegar

i think your lifestyle is really sad and empty and you are going to end up alone. You collect women like its a good thing? Its sad. Grow up and act your age. No wonder your ex wife cheated on you and left you for another man.

we are recovering Contactaholics "Contactaholics Anonymous meeting now called"....

Unfortunately the number is in my head and I can't seem to erase that!!!!!](*,) I really wish I could

yes, Its seeing the no missed calls thing, or whenever there is a missed call its from someone else. Theres a 17 page thread on this whole "case" called "the online guy update for those who have been following " its under sex and relationships. So its been a long and windy road and I have some great supporters here on ENA. I think the thoughts i have are Ok of he is not calling then he has forgotten about me, that kind of thing. But as anyone whos read th thread will tell you i should get rid of him anyway. So i suppose yeah like you say, little steps,- if i can get through til 3 pm and not check or call etc.

So SuperDave can I sign up? I need to make my start day Day 3 so i feel like I've already got somewhere..........

I don't know if this falls within Superdaves No Contact Challenge Rules, but I am NCing a fk buddy. I need NC because I have developed 'feelings" for him after 2 1/2 months. I am going away in 2 days back home for about 2 weeks and am not telling him I'm going. We usually are in contact every 3 days. Usually I am the one that calls. Lots of things have happened and i found that I cannot just have sex and not feel anything for the person. I have never been in a fk buddy relationship before and I am 38. Now I can see why. He just wants casual sex, so its no use me pinning any hopes on him. He had me fooled for a while because the sex we were having was more like 'making love' than just a booty call. But now I know that it musnt have been. It is Thursday morning and the last time I called and spoke to him was on Monday afternoon. I am finding it a struggle not to call because I keep thinking if i dont call he will just hook up with someone else. Believe me I know how stupid that is, because he is just as likely to do that whether I call or not.](*,) I find it really hard not to call because its almost like a reflex action for me to call. Does anyone have any advice on how I can get through this? If I can just get through the first week..](*,)

Ok super dave I'd like to sign up. I should have gone No Contact back on January 4th when it first happened. LAst contact i made was June 10th. So shoot me. Is it too late for me?? Ok so now Ive done 42 days. So i think under the circumstances I need to sign up for another 30. IS there hope for me?