I have the same problem you have though it isn't with orgasming, i am 14 years of age and i was born with a bladder problem wthat if i doun't drink two or more gallons of water each and everyday. i get very sick, if you don't drink water you pee crystalizes and it forms a block and feels like you have to pee but you can't the crystalization, dreink lots of water, plus this will make you have a full bladder!!!!!! i hope this helps !!!!