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  1. very impressive. i have never seen or heard a poem that got me speechless. its very deep. i loved it. you've got talent. keep it up. i also think you should show the girl. bravo.
  2. ok im not a guy, but i may have some advice. girls really like to get to know a guy before any action is taken. that is because if you guys dont know each other, then what are her chances of saying no compared to if you guys were friends? think about it. catch her at lunch or when she is at her locker. just casually talk to her. dont throw yourself on her or anything. start to talk to her more and more often. you guys can start a friendship and maybe later a relationship. i hope this helped you. sorry if it didnt. Brittany
  3. take another bow. that was so excellent. i had to stop and admire for a while before i was able to speak. that is exactly what i am going thru right now. this touched everything that has been weighing inside of me for a while. thanks. it was so beautiful. wow!!!! *still applauding*
  4. take another bow. that was so excellent. i had to stop and admire for a while before i was able to speak. that is exactly what i am going thru right now. this touched everything that has been weighing inside of me for a while. thanks. it was so beautiful. wow!!!! *still applauding*
  5. okay...first off...most guy prefer to date girls younger than them. i mean two years aint nothing compared to 7 or 8 years. you have nothing to worry about. it will be different if she was a sophmore and you were a senior. it really doesnt matter. just have fun. she sounds like she is worth it. so stick with it and dont worry about what others say.
  6. kay, i just wanna say that....you ARE loved and you ARE wanted. i am almost crying over here. i feel for you. i think that you are at the end of the rope and at the bottom of a hole. the only thing left for you to do....is look up and start climbing. a lot of teens go thru this kinda thing every day. i recomend you talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. maybe they will understand better and try and help you thru this rough time. i guaruntee you that so many lives will be dramatically effected if you throw yours away. dont give it all up. i mean there are a great many people who would mourn your death forever. if you were to kill yourself it would crush so many people. think about it....all of your loved ones would hurt...if you threw your life away. i hope this helps you. maybe your life will start to look better. i will keep you in my prayers. jesus loves you. god bless.
  7. okay cinnamon, lets start out by saying...this guy seems like the type every girl would like to have. although he is the player type...he may really like you. im gonna give this guy the benefit of a doubt for just a sec. he seems like he likes you and may be a really good catch. on the other hand....he may be just another 'dog.' you can never really be too careful around guys like this. most of them let their "big head" follow their "little head." he might just have the best intentions for you. but hemay also be messing with your mind. i say....just be careful. good luck girl. try and keep your options open for a while and just step back and view the whole picture before you make a move.
  8. thanks to both of you. i think you both had great advice. i actually just saw him. it was funny because we were at church and his gf and i were standing there with a couple of our friends, and he was near me. well instead of watching his gf he was looking at me. i think that is hilarious. anyways, if i need anything i will talk with you both. thanks again. its really great to know that if i ever need anything all i have to do is get on enotalone.com have a great week and have fun you guys!!
  9. Hey everyone, my boyfriend of five months and i broke up. we had started to act like friends more than bf/gf. we went to a camp together and didnt really hang out much. after two days he accused me of cheating on him, because these guys were hitting on me. we broke up and within and hour he had a new gf if he wasnt already going out with her before then. i have no idea what to think or feel. him and his friends all got together and are now telling my friends that i am a whore and a bunch of other stuff. i am currently starting to lose my friends because of this. i dont know what to do. please give me some advice on how to deal with this issue. thanks.
  10. danielle, maybe you should get your parents to meet him. invite him over fro dinner or something, and see if they like him. then after they meet him and or like him, tell them his age. maybe after they meet him and are open minded about it, they wont be so over bearing about it. i hope this helped, even a little bit.
  11. fenstrt, i think your poem was beautiful. it made me think of what just happened a few days ago with my bf. (now ex bf) thanks for bringing back memories. keep writing, you have a talent.
  12. i think your stepson is angry at the world. he is angry at himself and everyone and thing around him. he is blaming everyone for his mistakes, even though he may not have chosen this life for himself. he lives in his own world where he is perfect and everyone else is in the wrong. i think he is taking advantage. in fact i know he is! just from your psot i can tell this boy is just like my little brother. he was abandoned as a child (by his birth mother) and we adopted him when he was 5. he was doing good in my family. but now he is cheating in school, popping pills, he lies all the time. he is blaming everyone else for his mistakes. he has to learn that he is not perfect and neither is anyone else. i think your stepson is like my brother. they both have growing up to do. he has to learn that he has to pay for his mistakes. and also that he cant hwlp what happened between his mom and dad, but that doesnt mean that he cant get along with both of them. he needs to learn that you and your husband will not be there to protect him and help him out his whole life. he needs to be on his own. be responsible for his actions, and stop minipulating you and your husband. talk to him. tell him how you both feel. and try to work things out. i hope i helped you. i am sorry if i did not. good luck!
  13. i think that being quiet and just listening shows your wisdom in time of need. like...girls are willing to come to a guy with their problems if they know he will really listen to her. girls like both types of guys. some like the ones who are more out spoken and funny. a lot like the type of guy who will listen, but talk when the time is right. in reality it really depends on the girl and the guy. girls dont usually just say i like a guy who wont talk. or i like a guy who talks a lot. it depends on both. do you know what im trying to say? i hope so. just my two cents worth.
  14. i wanna say that he obviously has been considering in the past 26 what he should have been considering from the start. nine months is a long time. he should have been honest with you in the beginning about the whole "you dont give me what i need" crap. i think you guys both need time to your selves and i want you both to think long and hard about your relationship. i think there is something going on that you dont know of. i dont wanna hurt your feelings but i think something has made im jump and start thinking, i dont know what it is, as i dont know you, but ithink something has happened when you were gone. talk to him. find out what went wrong in your relationship. remember "true love finds a way" if its meant to be, then you guys will work it out. if not then it wasnt and that guy that is right for you is still out there. good luck and i hope you guys make it through. i really do hope i helped you. take care and god bless.
  15. dark, yes you are normal. a lot of girls have this problem. they choke up when a guy comes around. my sister i like that, and i am the total oposite. its like one of those universal questions. guitarlover, i am exactly the same way. i have 2 close girl friends, and like 13 close guy friends (which i get along better with) its wieird. i dunno. i just wanted to let ya know that ur not alone in this world.
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