Miss_Angel

*note to charlie chan......* you can have sex doggie style and not have anal sex. *Note to the person that posted this topic* All girls have a different sexual preference... be down with your bad self.......lol

she has a bf and gave you her number......= you with black eye from boyfriend? I don't know, is she your friend? Does she wanna be your friend? Are you bigger than her boyfriend? Can you handle it if he starts something with you? However, if you answered no to any of the questions above, I would not advise utilizing that number...your asking for trouble. :splat:

Stevie, Thanks for posting this....I'm in almost the exact same situation as you. My bf is bi-polar so everytime I want to talk to him about it, he freaks out and lectures me about how I can't make him choose btw me and his weed. And yeah, I've smoked it with him before too, although I don't anymore. Do whats best for you. Mel

I'll humor you with a reply. Size does matter...at least to me. And what the hell do you mean by a good size? Anything over 3" is considered average...consult your human anatomy book... and don't worry about it, unless a girl sees you naked and comments about how cute it is...lol

I suggest getting a fence...a tall one...and if their ball goes over.... It'll never be seen again...at least that particular ball...If you don't wanna get a fence, you may want to talk to the parents...depending on how well you know them, and how well they can control their own kids....this suggestion may not be as effective...if all else fails, just think, they won't be that age forever.....

Hey, bi-polar people tend to have periods of depression/euphoric happiness that occur for weeks or months at a time. I don't know that much about bi-polar except how to deal with it. Every body wonders what their purpose is on this earth from time to time....I have often convinced my self that I'm still here because I haven't yet accomplished what I need to accomplish.. Anyways, do you feel as if you have real friends? Not just people who feel sorry for you..? (Sorry, I know my wording is a little off today...) True friends are supposed to like you for you, share similar interest and hobbies, and WANT to hang out with you.. And now think, would you want to hang out with someone who was constantly sad and depressed all the time? HELL No, it'd be depressing... If you sincerely feel as if you serve no purpose, try making your life meaningful. I know that when I was diagnosed as being clinically depressed during my teenage years....the one thing that probably helped me the most was volunteering my free time and becoming a Big Sister through the big brothers/big sisters program. Become important in someones life....or if you don't like kids get out and clean up a park, help the homeless, I'm sure theres plenty of community activities that need your help...FEEL IMPORTANT. And finally, get to the bottom of whats really bothering you. Talk to someone you trust....start a diary....do whatever it takes. "To the world you maybe one person, but to one person, you maybe the world" Good luck, Mel

I'm sorry, I had to reply to this one....I used to have a friend in High-school, who walk down the hall and just randomly grab guys' asses and blame it on whoever was walking beside her---and yes, I have fallen victim to her ass grabbing - I didn't do it, Missy did...." game. Anyways, grabbing ppl's asses is a form of sexual harassment. I don't consider it to be a serious issue, I think in most cases it just shows the immaturity in a person. If you want it to stop, demand that they stop, if they continue, see the last comment in paragraph 1.......

I've been through this......and I seriously advise him to give up. Giving up on someone takes a lot of time...and its easy to give up on giving up when this person becomes avalible again... He's only going to end up heart broken in the end... In my own personal experience, I used to have the biggest crush on this guy - that I've known since grade school.....and I used to always hope that someday he would be mine, and so, grade school and middle school went by with no luck... and then I moved about 30 minutes away and attended a different school... Five years past and I still had hope that one day.....he'd be with me... and then I saw him one day at while I was working, and it was as if time had somehow changed my over idealistic view of him... his girlfriend was pregnant, and he was handing me an invitation to his wedding.... Hope this doesn't happen to your friend...but seriously, I think it's time for him to get past this infatuation he has for this girl.

First of all, your only 14, and you have your WHOLE LIFE ahead of you to make such serious decisions. I know when I was 14, these kinds of things were a big deal to me too... Want some honest advice? Consider where she's moving, somewhere within the state... I don't consider this to be a major move, if she was moving cross country, I could see a reason for the split. Second, I think that if you broke up with her now, while she's in a transitional phase in her life, it would only add to the grief of moving, she's forced to leave behind her friends, her neighborhood, her house, and her boyfriend wants to break up with her.... but lets try to stay positive. I also think its important that you discuss your feelings with your girlfriend as well. Ask her how she feels about things? What she think would be best? Tell her how you feel.... If you really care about this girl, and think you too can last a long time, it'll only be a matter of time before you both will have a license and be able to visit each other. So I do see hope for you guys. Best of Luck in whatever you decide Angel

Think of it this way: One more day that you don't ask her out is one more day that someone else might....Can you afford to risk it? Make a decision and act on it.

To answer your first question- You can meet girls everywhere....but the best place to meet girls are places you already hang out- and I'm talking about real life, not over the net here.... I think you should use the net as a tool in building your self confidence...as far as talking to women...practice at it and eventually, you'll become better at it. As far as the situation with the silly little girls, please don't take their stupidity to heart... its obvious that they have yet to mature yet. Give it time, be patient, follow my previous advice, and DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE. Thanks for the update as well.

Hey- Just so you know, this is my last post before I head off to bed. I know how you feel....and chances are she hasn't forgotten about you. I think it would be best if you sat down with her and explained how you feel...do this in privacy- tell her about how you feel, that you miss her, that you care about her....and most importantly about how you wish she was still apart of your life....and then listen to what she has to say.... Someone from an early post once said "one more day that you don't ask her out, is one more day that someone else could" - I think that basic meaning can be applied to your situation. If you love her, you've got to tell her, or your gonna spend the rest of your life wishing you had. Think about it. Mel

Why am I so upset with you? Obviously words that are typed can not have a tone of voice- so in my calmest voice possible, you fail to see that you have done wrong. You lack compassion for the other woman in this relationship, stop thinking about yourself for 5 seconds and think about how she feels...Second of all, if you told him not to attend the party, but KNEW he was planning on attending anyway....You could have chosen not to go. And I would be interested in knowing if you know how to use the word "no" - I mean, because I make it a point to steer away from dating married men, for any reason. "No, I'm sorry I can't date you because your married.....but if you'd like to hang out as friends..." often works well...Maybe you seek married men as a perference, I don't know, and who am I to judge...but for you to make assumptions on their relationship......have you personally talked to this woman? Money often isn't enough to sustain a loveless- so to speak - marriage. And there are alternatives to avoiding a costly divorce as any good lawyer can tell you. I seriously think you need to back off and let them - The married couple- resolve these issues on their own. It seems that there is a lot that needs to be resolved without your interference. And not to be overly harsh, but as a final thought, remember what goes around often comes around.

I think you should talk to this girl - alone. Let her know how you feel. Don't be afraid to be a little vulnerable. From the way you sound, it seems like she likes you too. Seize the day now, for you might not get another.

Does she smile at you? Want to stand close to you? If your only thirteen, it sounds like she might have a bit of a crush on you