My boyfriend and I are long distance, and we've been together for more then 2 years. He told me the same thing once... That he didn't want to talk to me so much on the phone anymore because it just made him more upset and missing me... I felt kind of offended at first when he told me that, but then I had to realize that everyone deals with these kinds of things differently. Right now, I think we're going through a rough patch... I've basically made up my mind that if we don't start living closer together, then I'm not going to be around for much longer.. it's not that I don't love him, it's just that I feel like if neither of us are willing to move so we can be close together, then clearly there are things that are more important in our lives then each other. This makes me sad, because I would move to him in a heartbeat (and this means moving continents) but I am not so sure about him... and I don't really know if he would want me to move to where he is... I don't think your boyfriend wants to split with you, because he wouldn't be making the effort to move if he did... and when he says you need a change, he probably means the distance. I strongly believe that no matter how much you love someone, there's only so much pain and long distance that anyone can handle before it's just too much... We'll see I guess.. Hope this helped...
