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  1. Iarra, I know this may be evil, but you should have roses sent to your cube! If his cube is next to yours, he's bound to either see them or hear the other girls in the office gushing about them.
  2. Iarra, how long were you guys dating? Why did you guys break up? That's got to be so weird working with an ex. My ex's company is one of our partners (and yes, I'm responsible for him landing the huge deal...I'm not bitter though ), so I have a weekly conference call with him on it. I usually don't say anything on the call, but sometimes I do just to show him that it's business as usually and I'm not bothered by everything
  3. oops, didn't realize that the OP posted that a year ago. Anyway, the message is still the same.
  4. Well done, Fineberg. Sounds like you and I have the same ebook What you're doing is pretty much my whole philosephy on NC vs. LC. As long as you're mentally ready! Sounds like you've got your head in the right place when she calls and are staying cool. I wish you the best of luck. I wish I could reach out to my ex right now, but fear and pride are getting in the way. Each time we make contact, he is always very receptive. I sometimes I wonder if he thinks I hate him due to some harsh words I said to him when we broke up. Since then, when we communicate, he seems to be going out of his way to show me he has changed, and does those little things I said he never did. Ugh! So confusing!!!
  5. Just got back from having sushi with a guy I'm totally not interested in. He asked me why I was becoming so distant so I had to tell him that I still wasn't over my ex and not really ready to start anything. After all that, he drops me off and asks me when he can see me again! Ugh!!!
  6. So, I mentioned that I sent an email out to some friends regarding the passing of a certain baseball player and my ex was included on the distribution. He replied to me and thanked me for sending him the link. Ugh... he always replies to my emails. I wish he wouldn't sometimes. When he replies, I never reply back until days/weeks later. When I call, he always answers and is super sweet. If he doesn't answer, he'll always text me back saying that he was sorry he missed my call and tells me what he's up to. It's so confusing which is why I understand that no contact is the way to go. I just want my "sweet baby" back... why can't I get over him??? Today has been very very difficult. I just want to know when the pain ends I have other guys that want to date me, and actually had to hurt someone recently because I just wasn't ready to give him what he wanted. I just don't want anyone else at this point. Is this a girl thing because it's my understanding that after a breakup, guys will hook up with someone else right away if they have the opportunity.
  7. I concur regarding exes returning when you are totally over them. I had an ex that completely "destroyed" me about 6 years ago text me and told me that he still loves me! Of course now, I want nothing to do with him and only want my most recent ex back. It's funny b/c I'm doing n/c with the 6 year ago ex (not purposely), but he's texting me non-stop. lol Oh the irony! I guess I can expect my most recent ex to contact me in a few years (sigh) I was almost to day 30 of n/c with the current ex and sent him, along with a couple other friend a very short message with a link regarding a baseball player that just passed away. I figured this was ok since it was an informative email and he just happened to be on the distribution I know.. I know... I blew it... Day 1 begins tomorrow. This blows!
  8. Wow. This sounds like my situation. And yes, I know what you mean by the "scary" part of it. The love I had for my ex scared the crap out of me because I knew that I would be destroyed if it ever ended. Instead of concentrating on how wonderful everything was, I was concentrating on how bad things could get. Ever seen "The Secret"? I'm a firm believe that all the negativity I was thinking in the relationship brought on it's demise.
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