Zampotne

haha me too. I think people do it just to mess with the rest of us

1-3 times a week. You guys are depressing me.

haha i actually asked my mom about this last night. she said the girl accross the street used to have all the girls from the neighborhood over to "experiment". I guess this is something that has been going on probably for years and years... and will never end. hey we're curious beings. never experienced it myself though.

How close can you go to your umm.. spot.. with it still being safe and not irritating? Basically what I'm asking if it's just for your bikini line/pelvic area, or if you can use it.. lower?

What's the best brand? I've heard some of them smell... and that is definitely the one area that I don't want smelling bad...

Everything everyone suggested all sounds great-- I'd also add that if at all possible, wait as long as you can in between shaves-- I find that if I don't shave while I have my period, (because no one will be down there during that week anyway) after it's over the first shave is the closest and is so soft with no bumps! And then when I shave again the next day it goes back to the bumpy red stubble mess =( But it's nice for one day!

I think the reason you got that kind of reaction from the lady you're with is because maybe it scared her a little- I doubt she just doesn't approve- she may just be scared that there's a chance that you could leave her for another man. I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe she thought that the reason you shared this with her was because you were trying to "tell her something," ya know? When actually you were just being open.

Yeah for such manly men, they are fragile. A little tug won't hurt them though.

There's been lots of questions about this lately. I posted this on another thread-- might be useful: "Hmm.. this is going to be hard to describe, and also hard to not be too graphic. I want to answer though, because I've had years of practice- and it would have been nice to have all this info up front rather than trial and error. For one thing, you need to have A LOT of saliva. The more, the better. Don't be afraid. If it's running down his penis and onto his balls that only means you are doing it right. Be very firm. I use one hand (closest to the base of his penis) and go up and down (speed/intensity varies depending on what he likes/how close he is to finishing). I make slight twisting motions with my hand-- not every time but frequently. Sometimes I concentrate more on moving my toungue around the tip of his penis while going up and down-- sometimes I concentrate on sucking a little harder or throating it deeper. As others have said, play with his balls a little. If he seems like he's getting close and you want to prolong him/tease him (which is beneficial because when he does come, it will be more intense and he'll love you more for it) stop and rub his penis on your breasts/nipples. Guys love this, plus hey- we should get some pleasure too, and it's nice to stop and take a breath. Also, I get very into it and often grab my bf's hand and put his fingers inside me or on my breasts- only because I'm into it, but he says this turns him on as well. Last but not least, when he's close/coming, shove it down your throat as far as you can. I've found guys love this- plus if he has bad tasting semen, it'll shoot right down your throat and you won't have to taste it. (As an added note, I had an ex that used to like it when I let it drip out of my mouth a little bit afterward, but this isn't for all people) Any other suggestions I didn't think of girls??" Other people also mentioned sucking on his balls too which I had forgotten--- gently of course!! Good luck.

I've always wondered, who gives better BJs-- gay men or straight women?

Sucking on the bottom lip is a big one... I'm not into biting so much. The spot in between your hip and your privates... i guess you could say bikini line... is very ticklish= very good. What I think is the hottest isn't so much the kissing, but the passionate breathing in each others mouths while making love, in between kisses.. anyone know what I mean?

We need to bring this thread back-- all of the posts lately have been very depressing. I've got a couple stories- My ex and I were having sex under a blanket downstairs in front of the TV- spooning, ya know? His mom came down and started watching Wheel of Fortune and we all were screaming out the answers, while my bf and I continued to have sex slowly and discretely. I still laugh at the thought of how ridiculous it was. Had sex with my ex in the ocean on our family vacation- when we came in my dad said "it looked like there were a lot of waves out there bumping you around" with an angry look on his face My ex was my boss at Papa Johns- we snuck into his office to have sex, little did I know that when I came out I had big hand prints in flour on my butt. My coworkers got a kick out of that. Ahh... horny kids. I miss those days. Oh and ew- this ones not about me but I was very embarrassed- I walked in on my dad watching scrambled porn- it was like heres a boob there's a boob... whats that? it was pathetic.

I agree it hasn't been long enough. You need to see a professional. I was in a similar situation, a long time ago. I, like you, started dating someone soon afterward. This was about 10 years ago- and I hadn't had any problems with sex since then, until about 2 years ago. It can sneak up on you, and at first you may not realize what the reason is. For me, I was dating a guy and completely turned on by him, and then I'd get very freaked out and cry uncontrollably during sex. It took a little while until I figured out what must have been going on. You are lucky that you have realized that this really affected you and you can get help right away. I think it would be best to try to heal while the scab is still new, rather than waiting for it to scar- scars are hard to get rid of. As far as the guy you are dating, you definitely need to be honest with him. The guy I dated was completely understanding, he really helped me get through it. I was afraid that since the rape was so long ago, he wouldn't know why it was affecting me now. If you do care about this man, he could be a great support system- try to give him some more credit. If you share something like this with a man, it could help you start to trust men again. They aren't all animals- he may surprise you. Good luck.

Haha- everyone keeps talking about how their gstrings are gross-- I think the fact that they are walking around with big clunky shoes on and pretty much anything else is the problem. It's like your b/f having sex with you with his socks on. Just looks ridiculous. They should just be barefoot. Although some of those places are probably pretty gross.