ComingUpDaisies

I know how you feel. You are not alone. You need to get involved in the community where you live. If you can't work, become a volunteer. Take a class, join a sport or go to a church meeting. You need to surround yourself with people. DO NOT STAY AT HOME. You had low self esteem to begin with and that is why you became so obsessive with him. You will find that if you contribute to your community in some way, you will meet people and you will find fullfillment in that you are helping others and you will meet friends in the process. As a human we are not able to experience more than one emotion at a time. Do not think and dwell on this person. When you find your mind going to him, change your thought process. Think about something that is funny or something that makes you laugh. Put on your favorite CD or movie or take a walk around the block. Exercise is a very good way to relieve some of your stress and it will make you feel better in the proces. Read a book. If you can take a book to a coffe shop and read there and not by yourself. Reading will broaden your mind. And take a class too if you can. By making yourself leave your home and doing things in your community, you will meet people and your life will change for the better. Remember you are not alone!

I have been there too. I know how you feel. Just remember that there are millions of people who go through the same emotions that you are going through and you are not alone. I had my heart broke when I was your age and I honestly never thought I would get over it. I'm 35 now, and time does heal the pain. My advice to you would be to get involved in a hobby, learn something new, join a class of some kind and meet new people. Either a sport or an art class might me good for you. It might not sound exciting at first, but force yourself. Trust me it will be good for you. Get out there and broaden your mind. Work on becoming you. You are and will always be your best friend. You don't need a man to make you complete. I am a single mother of two. I have a successful career and I own my own home. You are young and your life is just beginning. Make sure you keep your grades up and start looking at careers. You do not want to rely on having a man take care of you. If you dedicate yourself right now to becoming a responsible, knowledgeable, educated, and eventually independent person, you will become happy with yourself and eventually draw someone just like yourself to you.