theoneonly

You say you have changed so much, but have you thought about why you changed. Did you do it for yourself or did you do it to win her back. This is the question that you first have to answer. To be honest I hope she doesn't take you back and I think you should move on with your life. Reason being: Many people give people second chances and she gave you more then that, thereforeeeeee if you were to get back together she would probably still be hurting and plus a woman needs security in a relationship and trust. You two had neither of these characteristics. My advice to you: Move on and find a woman who knows the today you and not anything about the past. Treat her good and respect her. I do however applaud you for taking notice of your behaviour and changing your ways.

First of all I am a young professtional woman and believe me it can be hard to juggle a career and a relationship and this stage in life. To be honest with you I think you should stop thinking about yourself and how lonely you are without her and put all that time and energy into the time that you do get to share together. Why don't you spice things up a bit, buy her some longerie, run a bath, just do little things to set the mood. If she is relaxed and comfortable this will make your relationship alot better. To my understanding she feels guilty about all the time she doesn't get to spend with you and you are probably making her feel this way. If you really care about her you should support her because she is doing what she has to do or loves to do. Did you ever think about getting involved in something you feel passionate about. This would give the two of you more things to talk about! Sorry, but I figured if you posted this message you wanted to have an honest reply. theone&only

I am a 23 year old attractive female and to be quite frank I myself would appreciate an honest reply from you. If you do have the courage to contact her you should complement her and tell you that you were nervous and that's the first thing that came out of your head. Tell you that you would like to ask her on a date!! Don't make excuses as to why you want to spend time with her. Plus, I think when she asked you if you were asking her on a date, was a means to make sure that is what was going on. thereforeeeeeee you made things even more confusing for her. She probably wants to talk about more then your ex, so just tell her the truth. Complementing a woman is a respectable manner usually works.